My First Date In Six Years

[Disillusioned]

I agree take two valiums. If you are a nice guy, as you claim, then atand on that. Contrary to common belief NICE GUYS DON'T FINISH LAST. They end up with long term meaningful relationships. But insecure, over ideational or over controlling guys usually do lose out.

Valium is out of the question. I may be a terrible catch but I'm not a bad guy! I'm not out to hurt people! I'm not controlling or ideational. Getting medicated for this one aspect of my life would be like tearing off an arm to get the splinter out. I don't want to get hurt and I don't want to hurt anyone. I don't want false pretenses and games. I don't want exaggerated drama. I don't want to lay my baggage on anyone. Someone liked me in the past so it must be possible, I don't want to give up hope but I'm not the same as I once was.

[kitkitkitty]

valium's a bit far. she wants to see the real him, not a drugged up one

[Gigabitch]

Nobody comes off as drugged up on one Valium.