I agree RB, you should have one big memorable day; we guys are just along for the ride, but we know how much it means to the ladies.
Just keep in mind, not everything will go as planned; something is bound to go wrong, just don't stress over it and relax.
For example, is an outside wedding is planned, it might rain. Have plan B ready and enjoy it.
PS-Should I send you my address now for my invite, or do I still have time?