I Need Your Opinion Guys!!!

[Lite]

He control my laptop. Everything. Who's I'm talking to, I'm an open book to him. I don't know what to do....

Some of the most untrustworthy people I know are also the most controlling of their mates. Personally I would take a deep look at myself and ask if I really wanted to live that way forever. Which is what marriage is supposed to be a commitment for.

End it now, find someone who respects you, AND trusts you...whom you can trust in return.

[Ms.Cruise]

Some of the most untrustworthy people I know are also the most controlling of their mates. Personally I would take a deep look at myself and ask if I really wanted to live that way forever. Which is what marriage is supposed to be a commitment for.

End it now, find someone who respects you, AND trusts you...whom you can trust in return.

I think why he do that is because he's afraid that I'm doing what he's doing! Last night, he saw me that I'm reading on this site and he laughed at me telling me that I'm bored with my life. AWWWW!!I told him that ,,would you like if I'm viewing some sort of GUY'S NAKED PIC OR GETTING SOME PROVIDER FOR ME?. And he told me that I'm such a grump..waaaaaaaaaaaa. I really do need A nice soul searching here finding myself.

[Lite]

Right, so you feel there's a serious enough problem that you're asking random internet people for help, and he's being dismissive of you. <--- Do you not see anything wrong with this picture?

Why would you put up with that?

[Ms.Cruise]

Why would you put up with that?

He always thanking me for that.. And I don't know what to do. He always told me how much he LOVE ME!! ... Still don't know what to do.

[Lite]

Still don't know what to do.

I'm guessing you know what to do, you just don't want to make a decision about it. Which is the same thing as making a decision, only passive and leads to bad things in life.

[IndiReloaded]

Looking at porn is one thing, looking at dating sites is another altogether. The daily bit makes me think that it's some sort of habit or routine he's ahving trouble breaking. Though i'd be at a loss to explain why.

I don't think this is rocket science. She's there for a 3 month visit, but otherwise they are having a long-distance relationship. Obviously, he's looking at the ads as part of a regular routine when they are apart. Perhaps he's even dating on the sly. Its certainly a possibility you should consider, Mrs.C.

Its not behaviour that I would expect from a guy engaged to be married. Especially after his response. If he had fessed up & laughed it off as some harmless fun he has, I'd be less suspicious. In fact, b/c of his response, I question his commitment to their relationship.

[Ms.Cruise]

I tell a lot of my opinion to others, but it's really true that when it happens to you ,,you can't do it!!!!!!!! We still talking about it and I want to get to the bottom of this.

I'm thanking everybody to your opinion I really appreciate it. And I keep you updated.

Ms. Cruise

[IndiReloaded]

Oh yes. Saying and doing are nothing alike. That's why I prefer the posts from folks that I know have some experience in a matter.

[lagun89]

oh you are italian as well? anyway,i think that i wuouldn't go to this kind of site if I had a GF ,but sice i don't i once tried....they are funny, but i wouldn't ever dream to consider those realtionshps real...the main problem anyway is not that he goes to those sites......but that he had this kind of responses.....so...try asking again saying you are REALY worried......if he still gets mad,then reconsider how much you like him......

[Cbrider]

I agree that you should reserve judgment and have a "take two" with this, but for someone that close to you, snapping is just not a very good sign. Hes old enough to know better.

[Gigabitch]

It's not really a porn site. Its a CRAIGLIST ADS if you know about that, Erotic services and Strip club. Forum about all the provider in the area..

It's not just that. It's also ads for random hookups and such- people bored at work trying to arrange lunchtime hookups at a hotel near their office, etc. It's the cliche cheating site.

I think why he do that is because he's afraid that I'm doing what he's doing! Last night, he saw me that I'm reading on this site and he laughed at me telling me that I'm bored with my life.

He's trying desperately to get you off of CL so you won't see his ads, maybe.

Look, surfing porn is one thing, but this is quite another. This is red flag behavior. Pay attention.