It makes us feel like we're dominating. Hahahaha. Mainly we're just looking for "yes" "so good" "please" and we're happy. It's more that we can get away with it. I use to **** a girl that would tell me she was mine and I owned her. That helped a bit.
And no, I do like loud moaning if it's realistic and not constant. I don't like screaming.
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Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
Meh, neither are my idea of dirty talk, but I agree that it's distracting during sex.
I love dirty talk. I always talk dirty to my gf and she talks dirty to me. I love it!
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I can tell you this, when you're with a loud and verbal partner, break up, start dating another woman who is the exact opposite, you sort of wonder if you're performing to her satisfaction...I like a little audible confirmation. If I had to choose between crazy loud and dead silent...I'll put earplugs in and keep working . . .
Once after watching Couples Retreat, my gf and I were having sex and there was one moment where I couldn't resist...I said, "Boom." We both lost it...
^^ I LMFAO'd
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Actually, I did laugh the second time. I also laughed when I broke up with her because I thought about how crazy immature and needy she was and that was a reflection of it.
I guess I should have added this asterik, I meant to. *Dirty talk helps when the sex is otherwise awful.
When I'm ****ing a chick and she's terrible, at least when I talk dirty to her I feel more powerful/dominant/like a selfish asshole/whatever and it gets me off faster. Seriously. LOL.
Also, the boom thing is ridiculously funny. Nice.
I've never slept with a screamer. I did sleep with my GF during the afternoon at the weekend whilst her kids had a little sleep so we had to be quiet - found it quite erotic.
scream real loud
I don't like dirty talk either. I find it distracting, especially when he wants a physical reaction from me, and not verbal. I may whisper yes, but that's about it. I mostly go from quiet moaning and gasping, to nearly shouting. Depending on how good the guy is.
Now with guys, I like them mostly quiet. They get too loud, it just turns me off. Nice soft grunts and groans are fine. And another thing, I hate it when they want eye contact when they're about to blow a load. Look dude, a man having an orgasm is not the prettiest thing to watch.