Dating a girl now for about a month ...
and I have no clue what i'm so wanna be with here all the time ...
what could it be ?
Dating a girl now for about a month ...
and I have no clue what i'm so wanna be with here all the time ...
what could it be ?
Well lets see:
You got the standard stuff:
In shape (not too fat or skiny)
Face not ugly (I dont know how to say it in a nice way)
Then you got everything else:
Respects herself and her body (kind of goes with inshape stuff but also piercing and tatoos are a big turn off)
Smart: I like girls that i can actually have an intelegent conversation with, I find that as important as her looks
Funny: Girls that are funny are few and far between, but if you can find one youve got the jackpot
Similar interests: Those are so rare for me that its not even realisitic (I like math and science that eliminates like 90% of women right there)
Nice: That one is hard to describe, some girls are just nice to everyone I really like that, but in my expeirence it tends to come with some other unwanted qualities plus it might make a relationship hard, unless your alrite with her being "nice" to every guy she meets.
I'm with you Off2college more or less.
The most important thing for me is "she should also make me feel wanted,"
because I believe totally that "love is reciprocal."
Unless it's Mother Theresa...who loves you even if you don't show. Though this is a different kind of love...we all go through this once a while, I hope.
YES! It is all about the eyes. I don't intend to imply, of course, that I would fall in love with a female incarnation of Satan with the intelligence of a cooked sausage and beautiful eyes (as I hope no one would); but I believe the old saying that "eyes are windows through which to look upon the soul" or something like that.Originally Posted by Zero Interrupt
Then again, I'm one of those crazy people who believes that love is not an emotion, but a connection between souls. You can look into someone's eyes and see so much more than their body, facial features, personality, or their smile. Sure, all that stuff matters (some parts more than others), but when it comes to love, it really comes down to the eyes for me. You can see whether or not she loves you through them; that's a blessing to see. I've seen it maybe twice, and both times it filled my heart with joy.
(I just woke up from getting maybe two hours of sleep, so if I ramble and seem irrational, I apologise)
-Z
"Nothing takes the taste out of peanut butter quite like unrequited love."
-Charlie Brown
You're right man...Originally Posted by Denthrare
You are crazy.
yay you, Zarathu ^.^ that's great.Originally Posted by Zarathu
(edit: not sarcasm)
Probably certifiably.Originally Posted by Frasbee
But that's my belief, and I'm sticking with it.
-Z
"Nothing takes the taste out of peanut butter quite like unrequited love."
-Charlie Brown
You hold your ground without feelin' the need to explain yourself.Originally Posted by Denthrare
I'm startin' to like this guy.
Still crazy though.
Originally Posted by Off2College
I go FAR more for 'cute' (a very subjective term) than pretty. The girl I met last night might be considered plain or even a bit ugly by some but to me she was smoking hot. Great little body, brown hair, I couldn't sleep all night thinking about her. Can't wait to call her tommorrow.
Funny what I do find attractive. Real boobs please, no matter how small. Style of dress, Levi's and a tank top are just fine when worn right. Tasteful jewerly, not too much. I'm real big on well groomed nails too, both hands and feet.
Personality is EVERYTHING. I agree with #2 totally. And no game playing! 'I want you, you want me? Great, we're together.' Attitude can last forever, looks don't.
As far as #3, I actually prefer a girl that smokes cigs, drinks (ONLY a bit) and maybe even smokes a little pot. Nothing else though! But that's just me.
Oh yeah, and a sense of humor! If I tell a one minute joke I don't want to have to spend ten minutes explaining it. Major turn-off.
I think I have an Amazon fetish. I'm attracted to strong, bold, confident women. Maybe even a little dangerous. Catherine Trammell from Basic Instinct, the White Witch from Chronicles of Narnia... my kind of ladies.
In looks, I prefer short hair (I've always thought long hair looked "girlish", while short hair looks more sophisticated to me), and especially darker hair and complexion.
Attitude: Bold, brazen, experienced, sexually predacious, raunchy! The more flagrant and aggressive, the better. I seem to be fairly uinque this way, so many guys seem to only want virgins...
sex.
cute face
not fat
easy to talk to
Thank you dear.Originally Posted by Tiay
Yes! I'm also an extremely spiritual person. Sometimes, I feel so ashamed of a person when I look into their eyes because I'm looking.. and I'm going further, and further in... And then it hits me. "You, mademoiselle, are a ****ing idiot with no soul." And then I just can't talk to the bitch anymore.Originally Posted by Denthrare
I no longer provide much of an outline as to what I "look" for.
There are specific traits I no doubt find attractive.
However attraction tends to blind you of what they don't have and encourage you to focus on what they do have.
I am genuinely disturbed that so many people inside and outside this forum believe that sex is required for a good relationship. In my opinion (which I am sure I will take fire for, but which I am prepared to defend with conviction), love comes before sex in any situation, and sex is not necessary to make a romantic relationship sucessful. What has love come to, when it becomes more of a physical connection than an emotional one? It simultaneously saddens and sickens me.Originally Posted by itsmeyesitis
I have done the same sort of thing by looking into someone's eyes. Luckily for me, however, most of my experiences with that kind of "soul viewing" have been positive, and I end up realizing that a person's soul is more wonderful and deep than I had known before.Originally Posted by Zarathu
Ladies and gentlemen, words this wise deserve a bit of recognition. I believe it was the Rabbi Julius Gordon who once said that "Love is not blind - it sees more, not less. But because it sees more, it is willing to see less."Originally Posted by Frasbee
*Golf clap for Frasbee*
-Z
"Nothing takes the taste out of peanut butter quite like unrequited love."
-Charlie Brown
I need to find more people like that. It seems that the only people in Texas are ****ing idiots.Originally Posted by Denthrare