Anyone else deal with something like this?

[Mish]

I've been shot down in almost every way possible. Yet my friend gets this girl for free

You make it sounds like you're in some kind of competition or at a market bargaining over a watermelon

This mindset will not work well for you

[Teddy057]

You know what? Yeah, I'll work on myself, but I'll only work on that. I'm done with the "love game". I'll never ever ask anyone out. They can come to me instead, which I highly doubt will happen. I don't fear the consequences of this.

You're just hurting yourself. Remember, life is what you make it. Life's not going to feel sorry for you, in fact, it doesn't give a shit. Sometimes you need to go out and find what you want and make it yours. Or, you can keep living in this bubble of self-pity you're portraying. That won't get you anywhere though.

[Arcanide]

Funny you should say that, because life also doesn't care if I go sell drugs and go house to house removing people's heads with crowbars.

[Bella82]

You know what? Yeah, I'll work on myself, but I'll only work on that. I'm done with the "love game". I'll never ever ask anyone out. They can come to me instead, which I highly doubt will happen. I don't fear the consequences of this.

You owe it to yourself to work on something! You've gotten some good advice on here, your life will never be better until you do things to try to make it better. Nothing worth doing is easy and for you right now, it's not easy to try to be positive or do something that doesn't align with your general attitude that life sucks. I get it! You're in a rut right now, but you gotta dig yourself out.

As for being a 20 year-old virgin, who cares!! Everyone takes things at their own pace - there is no right or wrong way to do anything. You're only 20, you've got years to figure out what life is all about. I guarantee you that in the next 20 years, you'll look back at this stage in your life and realize what a small, passing phase it was.

Funny you should say that, because life also doesn't care if I go sell drugs and go house to house removing people's heads with crowbars.

True, but you know what, the LAW cares.

[Arcanide]

True, but you know what, the LAW cares.

Not if I end myself in the process. They won't put a dead body in prison.