Boyfriend cheating on me with porn - how do I put a stop to this?

[workingman78]

OK, so I am going to give you a bit of culture shock here. Not all places have a "porn hurts" ad campaign, I have never seen one, or even heard of one before. And as far as masterbation being dangerous, morally, etc. I also strongly beg to differ. You are allowed to have your opinnions, but they are far from fact. As a example, Alcohol is addicting, but not all people who drink alcohol are addicted. The same with porn and masterbation. Also masterbation/ejaculation on a regular basis has been proven to be healthy for you. More then one study has shown it reduces the chance of prostate cancer. I wonder if you use the arguement about masterbation leading to rape, what about someone who is sexually frustrated, many rapists have a problem with not being able to masterbate, Erectile disfunction, etc. I would think that a man who can't find his release is more likely to rape someone then someone who can release himself. I don't think I have ever seen a study that links masterbation to becoming gay. Could you please show your sources?

[steviej]

Because priests don't masterbate or have sexual relations with anyone they take out their frustrations on the alter boys.

Therefore religion=paedophillia!!!

[MetalPhoenix]

#HOWLS WITH LAUGHTER!!#

Wakeup, pass the popcorn, this is awesome! Must be a troll, i can't believe people like her exist. Well, except in american cults where they are all inbred and end up having a big shootout with the fbi.

I'm with you...that last post gives it away..

I call Troll as well XD XD

[Wakeup]

Boyfriend cheating on me with porn - how do I put a stop to this?

Rachel: Have you talked to your religious leader about having this demon exorcized from your bf? O.o

[bulrush]

This is entertaining, and I have a few minutes. Got my popcorn now.

Well I need to change him if he is unwilling to change himself because I love him, obviously!

My "Krazy Chik" meter just went off.

I think we've all seen the posters and ad campaign "Porn Harms" and know just how dangerous porn is.

How many people have been harmed by porn or fapping too much?

1. Now, how many people have been abused by Catholic priests?
2. How many witches burned by Christians? (Salem witch trials were not the only place, just the best publicized.)
3. How many people hanged because the Catholic church sided with the corrupt king and lords during the English Revolution?
4. How many people killed by the Spanish Inquisition (which was the Catholic Church btw)?
5. How many children were burned in the underground bus at the David Koresh compound because they joined a "Christain" cult?
6. How many women were abused by the Fundamental Latter Day Saints husbands? (See "60 minutes" segment.)
7. How many children were abused by Jehovah's Witnesses? How many JH officials did it take to cover it up? (Google it.)
8. How many scientists were killed or imprisoned for having proof that the earth revolved around the sun?

And I'm not counting all the fallen televangelists either.

And you think a few naked women making good money for college is bad? You fear things you do not understand, and fear is the root of evil.

Satan's minion be gone! I refuse to let you be a part of my life with your forked tongue, your half truths, and warped viewpoints.

The power of Christ compels you! The power of Christ compels you! The power of Christ compels you!
One more thing:
BOOBIES

[MetalPhoenix]

9. How many African children die each year from AIDS because the church says condoms are bad?

[vashti]

How many people have been harmed by porn or fapping too much?

I agree the original poster would be better off looking for someone who shares her values (including trolling, if that is what she is in to), but it actually is true that porn is apparently an escalating problem., which I have long suspected, but studies are now showing [url=http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_3800/3837_erectile-dysfunction-and-porn.html]Erectile Dysfunction And Porn - AskMen[/url]

[romantic_guy]

Please don't lump all "Christians" in with the poster. As someone has said, porn CAN be addicting and a problem, as can other things. Bulrush has made a good point. Humans have done many evil things in the name of "Christianity" (bulrush, you left out slavery. Many members of the KKK were Sunday school teachers and deacons in churches). No wonder Gandhi said that he did not become a Christian because so many of his so-called followers were not like their Christ. The "Church" has done an horrible job when it comes to sexuality. e.g. how many pastors have ever talked about the fact that Paul said that is my responsibility to see that my wife is sexually satisfied???? I have never heard it. Although, I would not condone the actions of many on the boards, it is ultimately up to me to judge them. My job, according to my Christ, is to love them. It is not my job to change anyone; that is the job of the Holy Spirit. Many tend to make sexual "sins" to be the ultimate "sins" and forget that being unloving to our neighbors is a sin too. I just need to mention that the basis for "the sin of masturbation" came from one verse in the Old Testament and it was not even talking about masturbation.

To the original poster, it is not your job to change anyone. Like others have said, you need to find a guy that has the same views that you do. If you can't find such a guy, maybe you are called to be single.

[IndiReloaded]

I think most people on this thread are deluding themselves if they don see the harm religion has done to them. It desensitises you in a way where you become obsessed by it.

Fixed your post, Rachael.

Isn't it amazing how [some] religious people think its perfectly rational to apply their zealotry to everything BUT their own religion? Scary stuff.

[bulrush]

"Song of Solomon" anyone? There's some good old Bible porn for ya.

[vashti]

"Song of Solomon" anyone? There's some good old Bible porn for ya.

That's not porn. That is love poetry.

[IndiReloaded]

Is that the 'love is stronger than wine" poem? Could you please point to a good text of that?

[oldskool83]

in the bible is you have ever read the book which i did...wow how shitty did they treat people. every man in there had like 3-12 conqubines and a wife. didnt hear the wifes complaining when their man went off to mack it with the bitches.

[vashti]

Is that the 'love is stronger than wine" poem? Could you please point to a good text of that?

"Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth: for thy love is better than wine."

"Awake, O north wind; and come, thou south; blow upon my garden, that the spices thereof may flow out. Let my beloved come into his garden, and eat his pleasant fruits."

"By night on my bed I sought him whom my soul loveth."

[IndiReloaded]

Great stuff that. Is the North Wind meant to be an inhalation?