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[anachronistic]

That really sucks that the first time you had sex, you felt like you did something "to" someone else. I'm sorry that happened. It should have been a beautiful experience.

Thankyou.

Next time I have sex, it is going to be the most passionate, most romantic sex ever!

[boobaa]

yes. religious people don't think of sex. ever. [/sarcasm]

Doing hand jobs to each other is almost the same as having real sex. I don't just get it, if both want to have sex, then why not having it? Instead they go masturbating alone in the toilet or worse, jerk off to porn...
What if you discover your sexual life is no good at all?

Sorry, but I just don't get those religious reasons. People waste the world God has created, but they don't want have sex with each other because God does not approve it...? Its the same as circumsizing just-born babies, maybe the baby doesn't want it? God has created men to have foreskin, but what do we do? We cut it off! But that doesn't stop us masturbating, as it was meant, it just makes us use lubricants just to make sex more uncomfortable...

You americans are crazy!

[Tiay]

yes! girls, come to Europe where the guys aren't cut. I'm told it's lots more fun on both sides.

[b*tch]

My girlfriend and i have discussed that neither of us wants to have sex before we are married, but agreed that anything leading up to it would be ok. recently, after an active makeout session including fingering and a handjob she said that she didn't want to do anything like it anymore and that she felt like we had gone too far. she was, however, interested in finding alternatives that are just as emotionally involved, but not as physically involved.

i have no idea what to do. any ideas?

i like the thought of not having sex before marriage.

but hey, isn't fingering and handjob a sexual gesture?

i think she doesn't want to do anything like that anymore because she wants to go further. just kiddin'!