Dealing with jealousy...

[Junket]

Besides guys are a bit different, we are more visual and girls shouldn't be all that surprised if we come out with obnoxious comments sometimes.

I say bullshit, women are just as visual, but their behavior is often less obnoxious. It's common sense not to spout obnoxious comments, blaming it on being male is a poor excuse for your idiocy.

Oh, and don't bring "we" into it wank, speak for yourself.

[Gigabitch]

I say bullshit, women are just as visual, but their behavior is often less obnoxious. It's common sense not to spout obnoxious comments, blaming it on being male is a poor excuse for your idiocy.

Oh, and don't bring "we" into it wank, speak for yourself.

I'm not sure if that's actually true. Sure, I'll notice a good-looking guy, but it doesn't necessarily result in attraction, which comes after other criteria are met, whereas I've heard guys say that they're attracted instantly, and then the attraction can go away if a beautiful girl is obnoxious, stupid, whatever.

[vashti]

I'm not sure if that's actually true. Sure, I'll notice a good-looking guy, but it doesn't necessarily result in attraction, which comes after other criteria are met.

True for me...

I wouldn't consider myself particularly visual.

[derm]

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Were these girlfriends or just friends?


You didn't answer my very direct question. How would you respond if your date said something about a guy having a really nice bulge.. say.. a guy wrestling at a match?

Were these girlfriends or just friends.....GF and her friends....sometimes just lady friends or even girls I barely know!

You didn't answer my very direct question. How would you respond if your date said something about a guy having a really nice bulge.. say.. a guy wrestling at a match?

It honestly wouldnt bother me.....an I'm a guy with an average sized package ...I think!

If I'm honest I'd probably just split myself laughing, especially if she said it in a funny way.




Sorry if its not music to your ears nebulachic.......I'm trying to be honest here, not defending guys or anything.

[derm]

I say bullshit, women are just as visual, but their behavior is often less obnoxious. It's common sense not to spout obnoxious comments, blaming it on being male is a poor excuse for your idiocy.

Oh, and don't bring "we" into it wank, speak for yourself.

Sorry...just being honest!...Can tell ye what ye wanna hear too BUT thats not what I'm here for!

'wank'...............Naaah calll me derm, sweety!

[derm]

I say bullshit, women are just as visual, but their behavior is often less obnoxious. It's common sense not to spout obnoxious comments, blaming it on being male is a poor excuse for your idiocy.

Oh, and don't bring "we" into it wank, speak for yourself.

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videogames, reading, frisbee, givin' YOU advice on your love life, despite my inadequate qualifications on the subject


You wrote it!

[derm]

Why you belittling this chick?

Wouldn't you be annoyed if your girlfriend told you how how much she admired some other guy's big dick?

I'm really not belittling her............I was initally addressing the REAL problem..her insecurity.

I am not standing up for the guy. I agree he is a dick to be going around commenting on others girls chests. He obviously doesn't have much respect for her, and is probably doing so because he knows it will annoy her.

I'm a guy but if I think another guy is doing something wrong I'll be the first to say it. It's not an us (guys) against ye (girls) scenario............... not in my eyes anyhow!

[vashti]

I'm not sure her insecurity is as much a problem as his stupidity and lack of respect.

[Rachel]

No,I'm sure he's not doing it to annoy me...he's just doing it because he's just the way he is and hopefully he spoted that he was hurting me by telling me these things...

[Gigabitch]

No,I'm sure he's not doing it to annoy me...he's just doing it because he's just the way he is and hopefully he spoted that he was hurting me by telling me these things...

Rachel, I do think it's best to just let it out at once if it really bothers you- you said you let it build up and fester until you were REALLY mad. Just start calling him a pig man when he's acting like a pig man and it won't get so pent up.