Originally Posted by
cosquin
Well, no surprise there are here many voices in defense of the women position, since all the participants in this thread are women LOL
Anyway, it is possible that I am not too romantic; but I'm the only one trying to spice a little our meetings. I have bought several toys and she always took this initiative with apathy. Either just barely use them or directly ignores them. Doesn't put even a little of her part to help me.
It's not about defending her. You asked a question and we're answering it for you.
Buying sex toys isn't going to achieve anything. She has to WANT to have sex with you before the sex toys will be appreciated. When's the last time you cooked her a meal? Or organised a nice outing? How do you contribute to the running of the household?
Tell me, if you were your wife, would you want to have sex with you? What parts of your personality would make her desire you?
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.