Why cant i trust men!!???

[clynn]

Befriend his friends that are girls. Go for coffee, go shopping, put them on your email lists.

Most self-respecting girls wouldn't betray their own girlfriends, and you'll begin to feel more confident with the people he spends time with.

And I ditto a lot of what Kristin258 said.

[CNN]

Thanks guys
I appreciate all the tips and advice.
I started talking to some of his friends and yeah it helps! To my surprise they seem very suportive in our relationship and are turning into my friends too. Makes me feel a little childish or silly for immediately assuming they were after my man.
Also decided that being insecure at my young age (21) is such a waste of time for one day ill wake up at the age of 60 maybe wishing for the good old days when i looked the way i looked today.
Also read this sentence a few days ago: Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent which kind of opened my eyes to the fact that the only one bringing pain to my life is me for allowing it.

And what the hell, ive got a good life, i should stop complaining about these little things and just enjoy it to the fullest instead of bitching about how i look. Im healthy and alive, thats what counts the most

And IF he ever cheats on me, ill know where the door is.