Initiating Touch With A Girl

[Mish]

Should I initiate the hug or kiss or should she?

I dont want to come off as being agressive or anything.

Try to initiate it, but not in an aggressive manner. When you see her, be friendly with your body language. Just being friends. That's what friends do. You could even extend that to other women in the group (if you are meeting her with a couple of people). Kiss a girl on the cheek next to her and then you won't feel as awkward with this one.

Then, you can make it into a habit each time you see her.

[Eloro]

Well, I'm no expert either, but I usually do it like this:

Date 1: Hug

Date 2: Hug, Kiss on cheek if she reacted well to hug, hold hands if applicable

Date 3: Hug, if she reacts well to the kiss on the cheek give her a kiss on the lips, hold hands/ put your arm around her in a movie or whatever

[cuddlemonster]

It all comes down to communication and relationship. A girl will tell you when she is ready, the slightest gaze of her eyes the direction of her body facing towards yours, just listen.... yup i know.... but listening is vital.

[Henry123]

Thanks everyone. I'm going to see how it goes again in the future. More experiementing. I gotta keep in mind what others has suggested in the back of my head when I'm in another situation again.

[Mathias]

Should I initiate the hug or kiss or should she?

I dont want to come off as being agressive or anything.

Ugh. You NEED to be aggressive. Period.

**** this wimpy bullshit. Man up. Now.

I'm not saying you need to jump on top of her, but you can't be passive about it either. Don't be afraid to put your hand on her shoulder when you're laughing with her. Don't be afraid to kiss her.

If you're timid, it's not going to happen. Ever.

[Mathias]

Well, I'm no expert either, but I usually do it like this:

Date 1: Hug

Date 2: Hug, Kiss on cheek if she reacted well to hug, hold hands if applicable

Date 3: Hug, if she reacts well to the kiss on the cheek give her a kiss on the lips, hold hands/ put your arm around her in a movie or whatever

Please don't do this either.

It's a kiss on the first date, unless it's going badly. If she won't kiss you after the first date, she never will. Might as well find out early on.

[Mathias]

It all comes down to communication and relationship. A girl will tell you when she is ready, the slightest gaze of her eyes the direction of her body facing towards yours, just listen.... yup i know.... but listening is vital.

Or you get the girl that plays hard to get. Amanda (the girl I'm seeing) did this for two weeks. She'll cozy up, then run away. Just decide what you want and go for it.

[Henry123]

Ugh. You NEED to be aggressive. Period.

**** this wimpy bullshit. Man up. Now.

I'm not saying you need to jump on top of her, but you can't be passive about it either. Don't be afraid to put your hand on her shoulder when you're laughing with her. Don't be afraid to kiss her.

If you're timid, it's not going to happen. Ever.

As stated in my earlier post she flinch when I touch her. Obviously not a good sign.