But my car is 3 years old and they need replaced now so saying well never need them and throwing them away seems ridiculous. You're suggesting its my fault he's insecure.. That doesn't seem logical which is why I didn't take you seriously. He would have said something like hey I don't want him.working on your car if he thought an affair was in the works. My friend picked my car up from.my work and dropped it back off to my home. Where in there there would be an affair I'm unsure.