Being a Virgin and Sex

[treehugger101]

He just wants sexual intercourse and thinks that we've been together for 1 year so why not have sex? Uh in my last relationship I was with my ex for 3 years and he never complained about not getting to have sexual intercourse with me, throughout that 3 year span, he was happy with the other stuff we did. So how come my ex can be happy with no sexual intercourse and this guy cannot?

[megvoh]

Dildo and fingers isn't ****ing, it's just a sexual activity for masturbation - self pleasure.
He's just trying to make you feel guilty, because he doesn't want you self pleasuring. Ignore him. I am sure he masturbates.

[Wakeup]

I am a Virgin going on 30 and plan to stay one until marriage. My problem here though is this, I have heard that if a women inserts something into her vagina, she isn't a Virgin anymore. Whether it'd be a vibrator, being fingered, etc. Doing those things, means she isn't a Virgin. To me, I know what sex is and I know that if a guys penis goes into your vagina then that means you aren't a Virgin. But I have even heard that if you grind against your partner, CLOTHED penetrating against them, that means you aren't a Virgin either. So what is the real deal? Who's right and who is wrong?

Anybody else on board yet with the suspicion that Treehugger is a 13 year old boy posing as a 30 year old virgin girl?

[basilandthyme]

So how come my ex can be happy with no sexual intercourse and this guy cannot?

Because he's not your ex.

[treehugger101]

Because he's not your ex.

Yeah I am well aware of this.

[basilandthyme]

Yeah I am well aware of this.

so why ask the question? Just because one guy has a particular attitude, it doesn't mean the next guy will feel the same way.

[treehugger101]

Maybe, maybe not, I know a lot of guys out there, need sex in their relationships, or there are those who aren't willing to wait it out, and then there are those that say they respect you and will wait and then they cheat behind your back, or the some that say they don't believe in marriage then break up with you and get married to someone else later on, etc.

[Wakeup]

WTF don't you contribute to other peoples threads instead of always making up new ones about YOU? Do you not have anything of intelligence to contribute that may help someone else? Have You never been outside of your own head?

[fearoflove]

Why does it matter? Are you trying to find a way around things but still remain a virgin?

One thing tempts you to the next thing. If you want to remain a virgin till marriage, then stick to it.

[Lilly328]

Sometimes I don't get these I want to remain a virgin til marriage thing when they are already stuffing a d*ck size dildo up their tunnel :/