In my opinion a bar is never a good way to pick up a guy unless your really looking for just one night stand,,,, Or a freinds with benefits kind of connection. Besides most of us that are at the bars are either there to forget about our rlationship or ex with a new guy that will keep us occupied.
On the men's point of view however they are there for drinks and seeing who they can usually take home or help their buddy score someone for the night if they happen to be taken at the time.
I always went to the bar for myself with my best friend to have fun. To sindg kereoke get loose but to be responsible and go home with my honor still intact and with no regrets the next morning.
Don't get me wrong if I happen to see the right guy walk in.. I would just play with the eyes formaly known as the seductive look for you ladies out there.. It kept them curious and you always having the upper hand.
Ladies no offence to the men but next time your in a bar. Start paying attention if not to drunk of course about 20 minutes before the last call. You will see the real dogs come out and play... LOL but this is not all men just 3/4 at least
Really honey try and get a mans attention in a place other than a bar. Its less drama and not so much competition.... Have faith in yourself because sooner or later your going to realize they just come in and out of your lives but leave footprints on your heart....
Hope this helps a little...
Love is a battlefield.... If you truly love the one your with no matter what, don't throw the towel in....