fingering my girl...no pleasure!!!!!

[mini696]

Too little fingers, or the girl has grown bigger...

I guess that comes down to technique again.

*Short Story*
My ex and I got back together following a 4 month break (no contact). After a nice 'first' date, things got heavy in my bedroom (I had to move out of a house we shared back to my parents -not fun at 25).

Anyway for some reason it was the best sex we have had for a while. I dont think I did anything different, but she screamed more than ever.

The funniest thing (to me anyway) was when I was fingering her during foreplay, she said "you can put three fingers in"... What she didn't know was I already working on my 4th.

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But anyway... I digress.

I believe your problem could be a combination of things.


*She's bored, and wants something different.

-Try laying her on her back, cover her eyes, pour some alcohol in her belly button. and dip into that everynow and again (finger or toungue). Rub this on her clit and it (aparently) gives a wierd cooling/burning sensation.

-Bring out something else other than your fingers, it'll up the excitement.

-Try doing it from a different angle. Have her sit on your lap (facing away, or towards you) spread her legs either side of yours (both your legs inside hers). Now you can open and close your legs, to increase or decrease the pressure, or make 'access' easier.

-Get her to show you how (thats sooo exciting for me). Have her show you by herself, also have her hold your hand and guide you.


*She doesnt love you anymore.

-Not much you can do here.

[abel_n_me]

Well At Least U Could Make Ur Girl Climax While Fingering Her! My Boyfriend Always Tried, But, He Just Couldn't Get Me To Cum! He He
We're Broken Up Now.

[mini696]

Well At Least U Could Make Ur Girl Climax While Fingering Her! My Boyfriend Always Tried, But, He Just Couldn't Get Me To Cum! He He
We're Broken Up Now.

Did you show him what to do? Put his hand on the spot and say, "Rub there, and dont stop"!!

[updraft]

forget the fingering .....give her the tongue!!!! Or better yet, when you're fingering her, lick her too and listen to her moan...

[lilwing89]

stick a finger up her ass while you do it(hence the shocker)