Fun questions for your date

[Mish]

Glad we got that out of the way Vash

Giga, I like that question

[Gigabitch]

Ask her how she feels about pre-nuptual agreements.

[Mish]

And you can always ask how she feels about abortion

[box_of_donuts]

I don't know, but I like it

yes...it is very interesting and I feel it is important..learning your own personality as well as someone who you might consider a mate, it seems beneficial when starting a new relationship.

although, from what I have read...people who are introverted...tend to come off as being extroverted when first meeting someone new. (talkative) (open) (active)

did you ever date someone who was very active in the beginning of a relationship but than changed 2 months later with not wanting to go out and do as much (or vice versa)?

more than likely the person who stopped going out as much is an introvert. The extroverted mate becomes confused when the introvert stops going out, which than might lead to tension and possible relationship problems.

when I first learned about personality triats I took a test which I learned, I was an ENFP (Extraverted iNtuitive Feeling Perceiving).

Now, I find myself striving for balance in each category.

[Gigabitch]

Ask her whether she thinks sexual content in movies is more objectionable than violence.

[Tedel]

I sometimes say... "Hey, I'm thirsty. Don't you want a bottle of soda or something?" Next, I mention I don't know which is your favourite soda, "oh no!" and I start my silly questions:

favourite soda?
coffee or tea?
what about ice-creams?
do you like Chinese food?
what's your bra size? << this one to make her say "what!?!?!?!?", laugh and finish the short interrogatory.

Repeat ad lib

[lastwish]

Q: If you were home one night reading a great book, and a friend called you and invited you to a great party while you were reading this great book. what do you think you would do?

A1: stay home and read the book (introverted answer)
A2: go with my friend to the party (extroverted answer)

But what if I like the idea of both? I would go to the part first because if I don't go then I will miss the opportunity. But when I come back, I would finish the book since it will still be there waiting for me. My decision might be based on efficiency. Also, there could be so many factors that play a part. Maybe I might consider the level of "greatness" of the specific party and the book. Or maybe my mood might play a part.

I think personalities are complex...and personality tests are flawed. I might take a personality test now and get a certain result and then a few weeks later take it again and I might get a different result.

I say, just meet the person and then get a feel of who they really are and whether you find him or her pleasant to be with or not (without trying to pin down the specific personality type). Go with the flow.

[misombra]

you could ask... will you be waiting till you're married to have sex?

[Kromat]

I say, just meet the person and then get a feel of who they really are and whether you find him or her pleasant to be with or not (without trying to pin down the specific personality type). Go with the flow.

You go girl, and I would choose both myself.
I would go to the party and bring the book along, because If I'm feeling bored I'll have something to do.
I like to improvise the situation, and choose the best effeactive option.


How would you handle a situation where you saw not 1, but 2 of your ex's in the same room, would you avoid them? or confront them to know that your here with your current girlfriend to enjoy the night, and they aren't going to stop you?

[box_of_donuts]

But what if I like the idea of both? I would go to the part first because if I don't go then I will miss the opportunity. But when I come back, I would finish the book since it will still be there waiting for me. My decision might be based on efficiency. Also, there could be so many factors that play a part. Maybe I might consider the level of "greatness" of the specific party and the book. Or maybe my mood might play a part.

I think personalities are complex...and personality tests are flawed. I might take a personality test now and get a certain result and then a few weeks later take it again and I might get a different result.

I say, just meet the person and then get a feel of who they really are and whether you find him or her pleasant to be with or not (without trying to pin down the specific personality type). Go with the flow.

The above question is just an example of a type of question to ask...obviously ... If that one question was only asked...one would not be able to determine if a person was introverted or extroverted...but if ..lets say... you asked 10 different questions to find out if one was an introverted or extroverted..one might have a better idea.

I was just giving a suggestion on what questions one may ask to find out more about a possible mate/first date type of questions

If you feel personality tests are flawed and it is not your cup of tea...you're entitled to your opinion.

[Illusional]

what would you like to talk about over the next bottle of wine??

raverboy

[littlewing]

But people... it doesn't matter what questions you aks, any questions would sound like an interview. I believe there's more interesting approach, less boring. You go on an interview and mention a movie you seen not long ago, just a simple conversation out of which you can study some of the body language or just simply get used to your date as a person.

Me, I have a bunch of hospital stories... "when I was a bit younger I used to be sick alot, there was this one time in the hospital..." always funny. First date shouldn't be an interview, interviews are akward.

[GrkScorp]

As an example, I like to throw in a "What would you really like to do if you had all the free time in the world?" just to see them go into the fantasy land. All kinds of things come out from that one simple question that paints an interesting picture of their personality.

So, what have yous got for me?

Oh gosh.., you sure know how to ask pretty key questions Mish.., I guess we're not hitting on any of the ladies on this forum.. so what the hell..

(Ben's character routine)

Ben: One of the books i'm working on.., is a hybrid of an autobiography and a biography.. about my life.. and the life of everyone else in my life.. and the interesting characters I meet along the way.. how our lives meet and connect
Girl: That sounds interesting.. so.. am I in your book?
Ben: That depends.., on how well I know you.., how well i'm able to capture your character fully..
Girl: (blah blah)
Ben: If you had to write a book or make a movie about yourself.., and form your character.., what would that character be like? Like.., what are some things that you could read about or see on screen and say.. "yeah.., that's definitely me"?

(GrkScorp's TDS routine)

- If you had to pick three words to describe yourself.., what would they be?
Her: (example: thoughtful, independent, loving)
- Hmm.., interesting.., why did you pick those three? Is there a story or time in your life where you've seen that part of you for yourself?

(GrkScorp's psychic powers routine; because Mish earned it)

- You know.., Socrates said.., you can learn more about a person through an hour of play.., than through years of conversation.. (smile).., can I show you something?
Her: yeah.. what?
- Well.., before we play.., we need some paper and a pen.. OK.., now.., i'll show you how to play first.., i'll ask you questions.., and then you can ask me.., ok?
Her: ok
- (smile) Great.., so.., here's what we're going to do.., I have 7 pieces of paper.., and i'm going to ask you a question.., before you answer.. truthfully.., i'm going to write down when I think your answer is.., and i'll put it under this (object) so there's no changing answers on my part.., after I do.., you can tell me what your answer is.. so you don't change or forget your answers later.., and why it's your answer.., and then you'll do the same for me.., when we're done.., we can compare answers.. and see why we thought what we did about eachother.. so.. let's start..
Her: ok
- The first three questions are related.., if you had to describe yourself in just three words.., what would they be? One at a time..
Her: (answers)
- Do you remember the name of your first crush? Think about it.. don't tell me.. (write it down).. ok.. what was it?
Her: (answer)
- Pick a work to describe how he made you feel inside.., when you were around him..
Her: (answer)
- When you find someone who makes you feel that way again.., what's that first thing that you'll notice about them? Like what's that first quality about him that'll make you feel that way all over again.., With me.., it just makes me melt inside when someone is creative for some reason.., but do you sort of get the question now? Like.., what's that one quality that really does it for you?
Her: (answer)
- Ok.., now.., pick a number.., 1 through 10.., ok? Good.., and now add.., hmm.., just 1 to it for now.., good? Great.., now.. take that new number.., and multiply it by two.. can you see what that new number is? Good.., now.. take than new number and add 4 to it.., nod when you're done.., good.., hmm.., now.., divide by two.., and.., just subtract the number you picked in the beginning.., good.., and add 2.. and just see that number in your head.. clearly.. good.. (write down on paper).., ok.. believe it or not.., that's the hardest question to get write.., but before you tell me what number you picked.., I hope I guessed right.., what is.. (pause.. breathe).. was it five?
Her: omg! yeah.., how did you do that? What did you get for the other answers? (opens up other papers) omg! How did you..?
- Well.., it looks like there wasn't much to figure out.., the only real question is.., how well do YOU know ME? Your turn..

(note: during this routine.., after each question you ask.., and after you write down your answer and place it under an object.., you should ask her "why" she chose that answer.., let her get into some story.. and then.. when she's done.. ask the other question.., you can be in conversation for hours with this routine.. plus discovering more about her.., and finishing off with a fun ending.. PM me to find out how the whole trick with the answers works)

Best,

GrkScorp

[sticko]

I don't get it.

Is there some trick to know her answers?

[vashti]

But people... it doesn't matter what questions you aks, any questions would sound like an interview. .

Yup. i agree.