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Thread: My Girlfriend googled for "cheating on bf not feeling guilty".

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    You shouldn't wait to ask; it's impossible to wait! Just ask already! If she goes into defense mode, then she is CERTAINLY hiding something. That is coming from experience, I've been cheated on twice and the only way I found out both times was because of facebook. My gf also didn't let me see who she was talking to on facebook and I didn't care until one day I noticed those email notifications you get from facebook about her accepting the 'on a relationship' status with some girl. I asked her she gave a lame excuse and even got mad at me for 'invading her privacy' which I didn't! It just popped up on our firefox mail-add on browser! Eventually I HAD TO BREAK THE PRIVACY and I saw EVERYTHING on her facebook. The truth! She had been cheating for three months. That's the only way she confessed and then went suicidal mode because she didn't want me to break up with her. :s THE POINT: Waiting will kill you and you will start to wonder. Just be prepared; be very prepared for anything. She may be cheating; she may not be cheating. Just watch for her reaction.

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    The curiosity is only going to kill you more and more the longer you wait. You need to confront her NOW.... and be prepared to drop her for good 10 seconds later.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IncognitoSir View Post
    Women usually watch porn that interest them, that they like and are into.
    I disagree with this statement.

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    Stop with the surveillance and just ask her about it. It's possible that she doesn't have intentions on cheating on you or anything.

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    rofl getting worried over google search history is just retarded. People look up random crap for random reasons. Just ask her. I mean she could be looking it up cause a friend is going through or what not. The porn thing is no big deal either. I bet if some federal agency or a shrink or to looked at all of our google searches we would be slapped legally insane and be put on 20 terrorist watch lists quicker then you can type kitty cannon

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    Quote Originally Posted by pisces25 View Post
    hahahaha just out of curiosity what was the answer?
    Like wild boar or zebra Meat is tender just gamy from anything I could find lol

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    thing is IF she is cheating ihighly doubt she will admit it...

    its like saying someone is insane and you have them committed but they keep saying they arent insane (and may not be) but you say they are saying that because they are insane... its a double edged sword

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    If it were me and since she told you the password, I would log on to her email or facebook and actually read any messages she received from other men you do not know. Like people said, your curiosity will just become a huge misunderstanding if the Google search made a mistake. Or maybe she just wanted to know the "what if I cheated" and hoping to read some real stories on how things ended up.
    It's up to you what you want to do. But if you don't find any results on her FB, then she should be clean with ironic thoughts.

    Also, you do understand that if she googles that again, google will find this exact thread for her.....right?
    To be or not to be?

    Is that the question?

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    Just freaking ask her. You've been together for a year now, so you should have some sort of communication skills with her. Just talk to her about it.

    The porn stuff, doesn't seem to really make much of a difference, I think. Just fantasy.

    And maybe she was searching that phrase to find a way to help out one of her friends. To know what to say to her, etc.

    You never know unless you ask her. Stop driving yourself crazy about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DannyH View Post
    rofl getting worried over google search history is just retarded. People look up random crap for random reasons.
    Not necessarily. An ex-girlfriend was using my computer a lot while she was living with me. One time I was googling for some porn and the browser was auto-suggesting lesbian dating sites, and showing that some of them had been visited recently through that browser. I checked those sites out and found that she had set up a dating profile at one of those sites. Busted. She claimed that she was helping a shy female friend set up dating profile at the site, but that didn't even make sense, because the profile had her picture and preferences, not those of the friend.
    Good decisions come from experience. Experience comes from bad decisions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DarkHelmet82 View Post
    thing is IF she is cheating ihighly doubt she will admit it...

    This is true.... you gotta play doctor and look at the small signs/details while she's feeding you the b.s. I'll catch a liar 10 times out of 10.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VincenzoG91 View Post
    the browser was auto-suggesting lesbian dating sites, and showing that some of them had been visited recently through that browser. I checked those sites out and found that she had set up a dating profile at one of those sites.

    Dude... isn't that a good thing?

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    Quote Originally Posted by VincenzoG91 View Post
    Not necessarily. An ex-girlfriend was using my computer a lot while she was living with me. One time I was googling for some porn and the browser was auto-suggesting lesbian dating sites, and showing that some of them had been visited recently through that browser. I checked those sites out and found that she had set up a dating profile at one of those sites. Busted. She claimed that she was helping a shy female friend set up dating profile at the site, but that didn't even make sense, because the profile had her picture and preferences, not those of the friend.
    True but it doesn't change the fact that sitting around worrying and not doing anything about it is pointless.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tremolo View Post
    I disagree with this statement.
    How the **** would you know? You don't watch porn or read romance novels.

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