When you have a "thing" with a friend..

[misombra]

sam, you'll have to wait your turn. something about timing.

[SamT]

Yes i know...that pretty much what ive landed on.
Even asked her, if she was single, would there be a chance of us being together...and she replied Yes! Definitely!

Just dont think its very healthy to wait in this state of limbo.!?

I mean she's already confessed that she gets jealous when i speak to other girls! And she knows how bad that sounds lol..

You think now that this has acctually happened right..Even denying it..Would that make us even closer?

Im sure that because she's in a relationship, her feelings cant fully develop for me..Or at least develop as quick as they would normally, if she was single, right?
not sure if that made sense lol..

Anyway, what do you think i should do now? other than continue playing it cool!
Knowing, its going to be hard for me to be as attracted to another girl. And knowing that its going to be hard for her to see me with someone else! :S

[misombra]

i think you should tell her that you like her, but don't want to mess with her relationship. then go on with your life.

you don't want a girl who would leave their boyfriend for another guy. it would be better if you weren't the reason for/if they break up. it just wouldn't be right. other than playing it cool, i suppose being honest with yourself and with her is what you should do.

[Mish]

Anyway, what do you think i should do now? other than continue playing it cool!
Knowing, its going to be hard for me to be as attracted to another girl. And knowing that its going to be hard for her to see me with someone else! :S

Two is a company, three is a crowd. Wait for your turn. If she's unhappy in her current relationship she will leave, then you can start something with her.

[SamT]

Um ok i understand..guess i cant force her into anything..

guess there isnt really a simple answer to this situation right?!

other than..wait, wait and waaait!

[misombra]

sorry sam.

you don't have to wait though. go meet other girls. even if it's just to make friends.

[Asparagoose]

guess there isnt really a simple answer to this situation right?!

other than..wait, wait and waaait!

Just accept the fact that she is with someone else right now. In the mean time, you can either wait around or continue with your normal life and be open to other people. It doesn't make sense for you to be exclusive with someone who is in a relationship with someone else.

[SamT]

Yeah, this is true, dont get me wrong she's told me all this. She cant expect me to wait around for her, and said that she's just going to have to get over it, if i find someone else.

Is it right though, if im always gonna have this thing for this girl?? I mean i dont want to deal with that kind of temptation, although its going to be like - 'what could have been'!?

If something does happen, or i do get a chance, i guess its up to fate, right?!

..im not a strong believer in fate mind lol.

[Cain]

Meh, it also seems to me that she's keeping you close by just in case this relationship she's in fails... you're kind of her backup plan. If she liked you more than her bf, she'd be with you.

[misombra]

Yeah, this is true, dont get me wrong she's told me all this. She cant expect me to wait around for her, and said that she's just going to have to get over it, if i find someone else.

Is it right though, if im always gonna have this thing for this girl?? I mean i dont want to deal with that kind of temptation, although its going to be like - 'what could have been'!?

If something does happen, or i do get a chance, i guess its up to fate, right?!

..im not a strong believer in fate mind lol.

well now you know what could be. no other female will be her, but now you have more of an idea as to what you want in a girl.

how old are you btw?

[SamT]

Yeah that's true, i guess she could just be lone of my favourite girls?!

How old am i? lol good question? Have a guess?

[misombra]

i will guess mid to late twenties...

and yes, add her to your favorites list.

[SamT]

Alright, lol no im only 20! Why so old!

[misombra]

lol i don't know. i guess you sound wise for your age, or something.

[starbuck]

cause he actually spells out all his words.