How many of u only date ur own race?

[jane]

oh....
There are banjo's playing in your house! LOL
Well, I have to say we all know that race is nothing. We are all people. We know that too. Dating is dating, It doesn't matter what race, sex, or even sexual orientation you are. Realtionships all have the same emotions with the same problems. Can't you just picture to gay guys asking why the other one "won't talk to them?" It's human nature. Do me a favor, please don't take on your fathers views about race. Make love not war or in your case, have sex with who ever , when ever...

[BankyTheHack]

Well, I have to say we all know that race is nothing. We are all people. We know that too. Dating is dating, It doesn't matter what race, sex, or even sexual orientation you are.

I totally agree, I'm dont differentiate people like that, everyones on the same level to me. The only things I can't tolerate are: Ignorance, Bigotry, Assholes/Bitches, and really dumb people. lol

Also I could never take on my dads ideas. To me your either nice or your an asshole.

[jane]

Good Point! See, if everyone felt that way, the world would be a better place for all races!

[BankyTheHack]

yep. I'm really surprised I turned out as tolerant as I am, considering I live in Idaho, and I moved here from Texas! It really pisses me off when people call people "faggot" or say "Don't Jew me" and crap like that.

[Carlos The Elf]

Yeah, I date my own race, but not really for any reason. I mean, I would date an african american, but most don't appeal to me. My first and current girlfriend is half Portuguese, and so am I (really rare where I live). It was a coincidence to find another Portuguese girl where I live, but of course I was interested in her before I found that out. I dunno, whatever. My girlfriend is hot, but that doesn't mean that indian chicks aren't. Yeah. I'm dumb.

[onegravity00]

The stupidist thing ever said to me was by my own brother......He knew I was dating a African American girl wich he disagreed with. What he said to try and convince me it was wrong was this quote "Black people are like Cligons and white people are like the U.S.S. federation" I know there are cultural differences but that was one of the stupidist things Ive heard in my life.

What gets me is that my Granpa came from Mexico and had a dark complexion wich a lot of my relatives do also.I dont because my Father was white. My brother grew up in Kentucky married his wife who seems to be intolerate to anything different. I dont even talk to them anymore they judged me because of who I was dating.I cant deal with there ignorance and they cant deal with my tolerance.


The way I see it there are assholes in every race there have been black, mexican chinese people ect that I have run into that are what I consider reverse racists,they give you a attitude because your skin is white but they are the same as ignorant white people IMO......However you have to be better than that you have to look at where people are coming from and see the person for who they are and what makes them.

It sad becasue in all races there is racism its a subjects that people will argue until the end of time.I know myself that it is wrong to judge anyone, I only judged my Brother because he judged me.Sort of like he drew first blood so I just dont deal with the dude anymore. This is a real deep subject for me because I have had friends of many different races that have kept me alive.I would'nt be here without them and would probably have less vision than I now have.And my Mother looks Indian so I know what its like to hear racial slurs.People have thrown beer cans at her where I used to live.They called her Wagon Burner and other names but do I judge all white people by those few NO! I have white skin and look nothing like my mother but I know what racism is and its in my own family like a disease.I dont have the cure some say education but hate is hate some people refuse to give up on it.I will tolerate people of all race and creeds but those that hate I wont understand those that think they are better.Like they had a ****ing choice of what color they were going to be when they entered this world.Well they sure as hell have the choice of what kind of asshole they are going to be.Anyways the world will keep spinning but those are some of my thoughts.

[Justinfirelake]

Good point onegravity00 very good point.

I think I'm one of those rare one that you see some time on the street. I am Chinese but I am not attracted to my own race. I do find my self attract to white gals only. I have always been bash by my own people for dating white people. It does not bother me too much but some time it does.

That’s just my view.

[sfalexi]

It's all a matter of personal preference. If you avoid a certain race because you're a bigot and hate people of that race, then you're an asshole and that's that.

If you don't date a particular race because you tend not to find them attractive, that's a different story. That is personal preference. I don't like fat women. Does that mean I'm a bigot and hope that every fat woman on the earth dies? No. I'm just not attracted to them. There are girls who don't find me attractive for some reason or other. Maybe it's cause I'm too short for them, being only 5'4", or maybe it's cause I have a particular shaped face, or my hairstyle, or cause I'm puerto rican and they don't like the typical puerto rican look. Well, that's fine. As long as they don't treat me like crap CAUSE i'm a puerto rican, I understand.

Like I said before, I tend to be more attracted to japanese, italian and columbian women. It doesn't mean that I haven't seen a chinese girl turn my head, or found myself drooling over this one black girl who worked with me at Circuit City (Oh man was she a hottie!). Just that usually, they're not for me.

I just wanted to clear up about me and state my views on what I perceive acceptable.

Alexi