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[AmyWright]

No. lol

XD

[loudrims_inc]

wow, i remember my 1st 18 yr old when i was 13...she happened to be my "sitter"

[bloodtippedrose]

^every boys fantasy

[loudrims_inc]

^every boys fantasy

haha...she was always horney...we didnt do much, all she wanted was to be "touched"

[girl68]

No. lol

I see why it works she's also "16".

We can't help you... you want this, deal with this. You are a dirty, old, little secret. And you will continue to be exactly that for 2 more years. Have fun with that.

[AmyWright]

I will, don't worry. But the thing is, the thread wasnt about age gaps, which i why Im not accepting your 'help' on that subject.

[loudrims_inc]

I see why it works she's also "16".

We can't help you... you want this, deal with this. You are a dirty, old, little secret. And you will continue to be exactly that for 2 more years. Have fun with that.

omg...i love your attitude, its so sexy!! ...seriously lol

[girl68]

Doesn't sound like "you will" you're complaining and you're a mere 7 months in. It's going to get harder times 24 (because you have 24 months for it to take more of a toll on you).

I have commented on more than your age gap.

I have said you have 2 more years of this. His parents if they do find out are going to be even more pissed because you're old. So they will not change their mind.

[AmyWright]

No when his parents had suspicions of us goin out they told him that hes gotta wait till he's 18 if he fancies me. They dont have a prob with the age gap.

This is why the age gap doesnt need discussing because all parties are okay with it this end lol.

Oh and theres nothing wrong with age gaps. we've got some friends who have a 11 year age gap (he was like 29 and hooked up with an 18 year old) and they're still happily married now and have been for nearly 10 years.

[girl68]

I'm not disputing age gaps. I'm disputing YOUR age gap.

Whatever, you so don't get it.

[AmyWright]

What, you want me to split up with him because someone I dont know online had a sour experience with a young age gap?

Anyway, I aint gonna argue lol. Thanks for the tips.

[girl68]

Please, provide me an update in 2 years. Maybe 3...

I don't have not a single sour story. I myself have a 7 year age gap. The difference between my 7 years and your 5 years is that... we're old and you're not.

[AmyWright]

Yeah I'll keep you updated.

Hey how old were you two when you first met or started falling for each other?

[girl68]

I was 22 him 29. (Not to mention I'm the girl, I was younger- significantly different)

In a sense I was being sarcastic though. I don't think you're going to last. I basically think you're both wasting your time. But before you blow up on me listen to WHY:

-You are young- how can you think you know who you want to spend the rest of your life with?
-He's even younger- he can't POSSIBLY know.
-He's going to have an itch to experiment with girls.
-The "secret" is going to take an ENORMOUS toll on you both- likely resulting in a break up.
-He has will grow up and want to do all the things you will have already done (as in partying blah blah blah- you'll be done with this)
-Men settle down at an older age, and considering you're old already- you'll be ready to settle and he won't.

Now I'm not an idiot I know sometimes you marry your highschool sweetheart, sometimes people marry people with all sorts of age gaps- blah blah blah dream up any excuse in the book. My point is everything you come up with is an EXCEPTION- not the rule. You have a very, very, slim chance at coming out on top.

Which is why I advocate to cut your loss now, rather than invest 2 years of a relationship that is not a relationship with a boy, not a man.

Your choice, but I'm big on the: "I TOLD YOU SO!" ('s) when you come crying for help.

I'm rather harsh in that aspect.

[AmyWright]

Okay well I see where your coming from but we're gonna give it a go and yes i promise you i'll keep you updated lmao.