Head over heels with an old flame

[Only-virgins]

Should it be done in words or something like a kiss and a confession?

Words work...I was thinking sigh language but words will do..no seriously though...yea...kiss and talk..talk and kiss..which ever order.

[Hart of Gold 22]

well, she mentioned not wanting to cheat on her boyfriend, so kiss and confession may not be the way to go unless you know it's over with him.
maybe words are best.
you could write a letter. chicks dig letters. lol.
but give her the letter in person.
don't like actually mail it to her or anything.
sit there while she reads it, and wait for her reaction.

[hopeless419]

That sounds good, albeit a tad "high-school-ish"...oh, damn, that actually is a great idea... Wouldn't me kissing her be a sign to her that I need her so bad that I'd go to that extreme with her? That could possibly be the pushy and intrusive action that I need, right? Or am I being too impatient about it?

[hopeless419]

Talk about giving me confidence. You people are the best. Thanks to you, I'll probably get to sleep at a decent time tonight, but not right now...

[Hart of Gold 22]

I don't know man.
Either way should work wonders, as long as you get the point across.

But I'm gonna hit the sack.
It's about 1 am over here, and I've gotta get up for work in a few hours.

Good luck and be sure to post how it goes.

I'd go with the letter thing! Trust me, man, chicks dig letters!

[hopeless419]

I don't know man.
Either way should work wonders, as long as you get the point across.

But I'm gonna hit the sack.
It's about 1 am over here, and I've gotta get up for work in a few hours.

Good luck and be sure to post how it goes.

I'd go with the letter thing! Trust me, man, chicks dig letters!

thanks, have a good night!

[Only-virgins]

you could write a letter. chicks dig letters. lol.
but give her the letter in person.
don't like actually mail it to her or anything.
sit there while she reads it, and wait for her reaction.

No, no they dont dig letters (speaking from experience). Why would you write her a letter and then watch her read it...thats retarded..she might think you have a problem expressing yourself with words. Letters are long distance. Guy, just tell her how you feel in person if you have the chance....simple...I would give anything for a chance like that with the girl I like.

[hopeless419]

I think spilling it to her is a good option, too. I think she might just be staying with this guy because he's bangin' her. She won't bang anyone else because that's cheating. So I'll spill it and let her decide if she wants true emotion attatched to those bangings or not.

[hopeless419]

Plus, if things backfire, I don't want to leave a paper trail. Even though she said she kept every note I ever wrote her.

[Only-virgins]

I think spilling it to her is a good option, too. I think she might just be staying with this guy because he's bangin' her. She won't bang anyone else because that's cheating. So I'll spill it and let her decide if she wants true emotion attatched to those bangings or not.

Wow, you seem to care little that hes bangin her.

[hopeless419]

Don't get me wrong. I care, alright, but what can I do? If I spill it, she can go to his house after work and bang him again. I can't stop her from doing what feels good to her, but I can try to redirect it to me. I could care less about me banging her, I just want to do whatever I can in my power to make her happy. If that includes banging her, so be it. Her boyfriend'll be ass-less so quick, it'll make his head spin. But that's cheating, so I guess spilling it is my only option.

[Only-virgins]

Don't get me wrong. I care, alright, but what can I do? If I spill it, she can go to his house after work and bang him again. I can't stop her from doing what feels good to her, but I can try to redirect it to me. I could care less about me banging her, I just want to do whatever I can in my power to make her happy. If that includes banging her, so be it. Her boyfriend'll be ass-less so quick, it'll make his head spin. But that's cheating, so I guess spilling it is my only option.

I doubt he will care. Ass is so easy to find just for the banging..at least around here. I see were you are coming from with the redirection thing..its just not me. I would be with her think all day long about how he was banging her.

[Asip4u]

Wow, you seem to care little that hes bangin her.

So what if she's getting banged, your girl and probably mine too are out there getting banged...if we're too incompetent to do something about it, somebody else should..heheh

[hopeless419]

I just hope I haven't missed my chance...

[Only-virgins]

So what if she's getting banged, your girl and probably mine too are out there getting banged...if we're too incompetent to do something about it, somebody else should..heheh

Then she isnt my girl. I dont have a girl. Why is your girl banging someone else?