is he just trying to make me jealous? or what?

[chelsee]

i think it just pisses me off, it makes me feel like a fool. i would do it back to him but i don't play those kind of games.

[Rosebud]

It pisses you off because you care what she thinks. Which is why they said your insecure! You should not feel like a fool if your confident in yourself. I still think you should talk to him, if not your either going to have to get over this or move on from him.

[carpflounder]

carp, how come you say i am insecure?

Because you are..I just call it like it is.

if your bf/gf was paying attention to someone else you wouldn't like it either.

Yeah if that proverbial situation where to present itself I would be pissed..But I dont date that kind of trash..so that wouldn't happen to me in the first place.

[Junsui]

Maybe the other girl is into him too and trying to cause more problems between you and your bf, then she can work her way in since he seems to already be physically attracted to her.

[carpflounder]

Maybe the other girl is into him too and trying to cause more problems between you and your bf, then she can work her way in since he seems to already be physically attracted to her.

Nice paranoid theory. Amongst a thousand other possibilities.

[whaywardj]

True story: GF and me living together in house on hill surrounded by trees, some of which are getting a little gnarly and need trimming. She'd mentions them to me more than once or twice, so I say, "Well, since you pass the mall on your way home from work and I don't, why don't you pick up a small chainsaw on your way in one day. I'll clean 'em. up. I give her a few specs and next day, she does. I wasn't planning on prowling around two-and-a-half acres of land with a chainsaw over my shoulder quite THAT quickly. So, I let the chore slide a few days. The weekend I thought I'd go tree-chopping, it rained. So, I let it slide some more. Hell, the trees weren't going anywhere and neither was I.

Come home from work one evening. Strange car in driveway. Strange man in garage with GF, assembling the chainsaw. I'm thinking, "What the fuh?" I get out of car and go in garage.

GF: "Oh, hi honey. This is (name), one of my friends at work. I thought I'd ask him to come by and show you how to use the chainsaw." I'm shocked and amused at once. So, I nodded stupidly while this guy runs Chainsaw 101 by me, thanking him when he's done and, after a little chitty-chat with my GF, off he goes.

Upstairs now. Dinner time. I've set the table and am sitting there watching her. She's at the stove preparing to bring things over. It occurs to me, so I say, "Sweetie, how would you feel if I invited (ex-gf's name) over tomorrow night and had her teach you how to prepare one of my favorite meals?" GF serves me a portion of roast and says, coldly, "I know how to cook."

"Aha!," I answer.

I had to explain the parallel between that and her move of that afternoon. Turns out, as I'm sure many of you guessed, the friend she had over was somewhat more than a friend.

Anyway. Moral of post? Do one of two things, Chelsee. Say in a casual way to your boyfriend, "You know that waitress at so-and-so? Everytime we go there, she asks me why she's never heard you compliment me." See if he squirms. OR (maybe better): "Like my (whatever)? I'm getting lots of compliments on it from (mention a name)." See if he tenses up.

Then say, "Aha!"

[Junsui]

Nice paranoid theory. Amongst a thousand other possibilities.

Of course there are like thousands of possibilities, everyone else is throwing one out and so am I.

[chelsee]

great idea

[Lloyd95]

So did you ever get the trees pruned?

[carpflounder]

Of course there are like thousands of possibilities, everyone else is throwing one out and so am I.

Maybe if we all keep guessing we'll get it right!!

[angelbaby011604]

i say kick his ass... i don't care what the situation is he should be all eyes on you not another women...

[chelsee]

yeah i'm all for kicking his ass or maybe his balls..lol

[Tone]

Your boyfriend is a jerk. Why are you with him?

[angelbaby011604]

yeah i'm all for kicking his ass or maybe his balls..lol

i say go for it... he needs a rude awakening

[Rosebud]

I don't think kicking his balls is appropriate that's just wrong!!!