Do you think this guy was a player?

[Wakeup]

but he made it pretty clear that he wouldn't be seeing me unless sex was involved. "

You just have to listen ladies. Just listen and take his words that indicate that he doesn't want you past the casual at face value. It's really that simple.

In this particular instance; that line there is telling you all you needed to know to stay the fk away from him.

Harsh or not.. when I see you're making dumb excuses for your own behaviour then I get harsh. If I see you admit you made a mistake and that you'll likely not make the same one's again... not so much. You cheated. You want I should congratulate you?