That could be OK by me. Do you suppose if it turns out that she is taken that I could somehow meet other girls through her anyway?
That could be OK by me. Do you suppose if it turns out that she is taken that I could somehow meet other girls through her anyway?
"1,2,3,4.....The highway's jammed with broken heroes on a last chance power-drive!"
"Glory days/Well, they'll pass you by/Glory days"
yes pm good luck. fingers crossed for you. kiss for luck mwah*
My concern with PM is if she was taken and got really uncomfortable with a PM over a public message but maybe I'm just overthinking it..I mean, a vision of a guy punching me as I opened my door came to mind..
"1,2,3,4.....The highway's jammed with broken heroes on a last chance power-drive!"
"Glory days/Well, they'll pass you by/Glory days"
Then I can't think of a reason you wouldn't ask her to meet up straight away (in the first message). You set the stage.
When you meet her, you will probably talk about your love lives amongst other things, so ask her about hers and if she's single tell her you'd love to take her on an actual date. If she declines, don't make a big deal out of it, just laugh/chuckle and ask her if she can at least introduce you to one of her friends. I'm assuming you were good enough friends for there to not be much awkwardness/embarrassment even when talking about these subjects.
And I also agree that it should be a private message.
Start here, dude.
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relax man. nobody is gonna beat you up for asking a girl out. not unless her bf is a psycho anyway lol. if she has a bf shell tell you that and you can say "thats cool, no worries"
How about, "Did you hear the one about old friends who connected over Facebook? No? Maybe we should meet up to figure it out?" blah, also include that you will go out for some wine to compliment the cheese.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.
Public messages are for when you want to leave a message and aren't expecting a response. If you want to hear back, you should private message her.
I'd leave an opening response similar to what Michelle posted except using your own words. Then just ask some basic questions about what she's been up to. For instance, is she going to school, working, etc.? Does she still live in the same place? You can also use that exchange to ask if she's seeing anyone. Then after a few exchanges, just ask if she'd be interested in getting coffee sometime.
No reason you can't use her to find other girls if she's taken. After she says she's taken, just say "I'm still searching. I don't suppose you know anyone you'd want to set me up with you, do you?" You never know what might come out of that.
Good luck!
Being short has nothing to do with being unattractive... one of the hottest guys I know is actually shorter than me (and I'm average height for a girl). I already told you about that other friend of mine who is even shorter and who got a girlfriend just by being confident and asking her out. It's all about confidence, charisma, ...
This is different because I actually knew her pretty well way back when (last time I saw her was junior of high school and we're both 23-24 now).
"1,2,3,4.....The highway's jammed with broken heroes on a last chance power-drive!"
"Glory days/Well, they'll pass you by/Glory days"