Well umm f**k yeah. When one is constangly bullied, laughed at, pushed away, poked, pranked, and then I "try something" and get pushed away and laughed at. Hells yeah only once. Why would I voluntarily put myself up for yet more humiliation again? Not many would.
HS was the absolute worst time of my entire life. I grew into my own at around 19, If I want a guy I'll get him but rest assured being laughed at while pushed away makes it absolutely horrifying to try again... so self confidence my ass.
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I was around 17 and when guys started to take notice. At school, all my friends had boyfriends except me. But then they'd tend to chase guys, I didn't and never have.
The best looking girls at school, turned out to the fugliest - the fugliest turned into swans over the years and judging by pics I saw on FB of them all and what they look like now. Same for the guys....the hot ones at school, are right 'dogs' now, lols
I guess I'd rather be good looking NOW... and have a hideous past.
me too! I was really awkward and had no confidence til I was a senior, so probably 17. I was skinny and didn't have curves, I had braces. I have a bigger forehead so it always made me look really awkward. I was self-conscious and shy so that prevented me from ever having a boyfriend or going after a guy. I was the same as xxazurexx, all my friends always had boyfriends and I was the one who had to go to dances solo! Then I grew up, got my braces off, got side bangs, grew curves, and now I keep having to make excuses to NOT hang out with guys. If only I knew back then how things would turn out... lol.
it's funny too how the ugly people become pretty and vice versa! this one guy who is a friend of mine was cute in high school. football player, all the girls liked him, etc. now, he is 21 and has a receding hairline! I mean, his hair is literally back to the middle of his scalp at this point! a bunch of people who were the hot popular ones got fat and went downhill. and people who were never really noticed look good!
^I was the same....lacked total confidence and was really shy,
Then my confidence just grew and when I reached 17/18. I don't think those were the years I looked my best physically though,. I'd say from 26 onwards is when I was at my most attractive - I seemed to 'peak' at that age and people say the older I get, the better I look
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15 ..I was ridiculously shy...my best mates girlfriend decided to try hook me up with one of her friends , who was in retrospect a bit of a slut. I spent the day with them both , and in a dark alley walking her home she shoved me against the fence and started kissing me. I had NO idea what to do , just kind of guessed and figured it out. Spent the night with her , had some fun...not proper sex though and the next day she told me she thought we should'nt hang out anymore. Never saw her again. Then I went a year an a half before I met anyone else . Not a proud or romantic first kiss really , but I didn't really get good looking til about a year ago or so when I hit 17
"Nobody , so long as he moves about among the chaotic currents of life , is without trouble. Carl jung
14 years old back then I wanted to hurt her but insted i kissed her
and run away considering that is punishment to her
18, it wasn't that long ago. We went to Applebees, and in the parking lot he kissed me. I never saw him since.
It was with a 50 yr old man and an engineer, but he wanted sex that same night too, and I was like "no". And then he said, "I'm bored" so he took me home.
Lol I was 13 that time! the guy was 16 or 17 i think... he's my first real boyfriend... heheheh
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