Giving me the Sh*ts

[Desinate]

-Took My Other Question Out-

[Desinate]

bump...
Seriously. I dont know what i can do..

[tryingtoforget]

restraining orders often end up causing more danger to the person who gets them, they tend to be provocative and pique more anger in people who are mentally ill and violent.
I would continue to avoid her, don't even engage in any discourse. Don't say f-ing this and f-ing that, just calmly avoid.
She is trying to engage you in her drama, and the more you participate, the more she will respond.
I have experienced the same, and I have found that the best tactic is peaceful avoidance. I don't talk about it to other people, if she's hearing from "friends" about what you are saying about her, thats just more fuel. Shut your mouth and turn in the opposite direction. Every time. Eventually, she'll find some other poor fool to attach herself to.

[Desinate]

Yeah, aparently shes doing all this because she loves me. And i dumped her. Im trying to avoid it, i only said f-ing - cause she had my 400 dollar glasses in her hands...
Yeah, im desperately trying to avoid her. but its been almost if not a year and shes still the same... wtf... I hope she finds that other person quickly...

[vashti]

Honey, you are both still kids. You have parents - let them help you out with this one. You can either go to her parents and tell them the problem, or have your parents intervene. You can tell her parents you are considering a restraining order. Most parents would intervene at that point, because no one wants their kid to have that on their record.

[Thatguy92790]

If you ever see her just leave. No matter where you are at. I promise she will move on after a while. Girls handle situations such as this differently than men. Who knows man. You have no clue what goes on behind close doors when she is at home. She may live a hard life which corresponds to the drug abuse and such.

[Desinate]

Honey, you are both still kids. You have parents - let them help you out with this one. You can either go to her parents and tell them the problem, or have your parents intervene. You can tell her parents you are considering a restraining order. Most parents would intervene at that point, because no one wants their kid to have that on their record.

Umm.. Her mum is just as crazy though... I met her once. It would only make things worse. And probably dangerous.


and Thatguy92790 as for the drug abuse, i know she takes drugs for fun.. or w.e...

[vashti]

Have you told YOUR parents and asked for their input?

[Desinate]

My mum seems to think im joking around...

[FoxyLaydee]

My mum seems to think im joking around...

How about your father? Her father?

I'm sure there is an adult you can go to to help you out with this.

[vashti]

My mum seems to think im joking around...

???

Why does she think this? Sit your parents down and tell them at the same time. If they start laughing about it, tell them you are serious and you want to be taken seriously. Honestly though, I am surprised by your mom's reaction.

Does this girl go to your school? I guess you could also approach your counselor.

[misombra]

vashhh, it's unfortunate that most parents are not as caring and mentally with it as you are.

this world would be a much more wonderful place if they were.

[vashti]

I don't understand the reationship some people have with their kids.
I guess I try to remain optimistic that parents are on their kid's side.

[Desinate]

???

Why does she think this?

Does this girl go to your school? I guess you could also approach your counselor.

No idea why my mum thinks that, she thinks im overreacting or something.
No she doesnt go to my school, If she did i would have already told teachers w.e.

How about your father? Her father?

My parents are divorced and my dad lives over seas, her dad is a murderer and in jail.

[vashti]

I guess you could contact one of HER school counselors, then. I really don't know what else to offer. It sucks that your parents aren't stepping up, and I guess with her dad in jail, you can see why she has issues (not that it matters, except for helping you choose more wisely next time).