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[TAVS]

It's all in the wording. The women I date have more tact than you.

[updraft]

It's not being chicken-shlt. Would you prefer it if your woman would turn around and tell you.

"You know what TAVS, just stop, I really don't enjoy it anyway, you're just awful"

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I didn't think so either. But she's just trying to encourage you. I think "you're getting better" is the best thing you can say to a man. It lets the man know that he's not pleasing you to the best that he can, but he is getting there. It really gives him something to look foward to. And, he won't take it that personal. After all, "you're getting better" is a complement.

You're so right men take everything personally if it relates to their "performance" or lack thereof...

[Only-virgins]

If it bothers you then it will get worse...it will always be in the back of your mind. If not then go with her but...it obviously does bother you or you wouldnt be wasting your time asking us online right?. Save yourself and her some stress and just end it now.

I would worry at least as much about the fact that she didn't have enough sense to keep it to herself....

Well, if asked ..one should always answer.

You're so right men take everything personally if it relates to their "performance" or lack thereof...

Can everyone just please speak for them-self?. I really dont care how much performance I have and I sure dont care what others would say.

Her: " You were terrible, your obviously not experienced"
Me: "laughter"
Her: "what are you laughing at?"
Me: "oh nothing *snicker* its just that...*laughter* ..you still got some jizz on your face *laughter*"

[zorrotosire]

Thanks all of guys for your words on this problem. I think i didnt make it clear enough from the start but the deal is i really kinda like this woman and i really want something to start with this girl. I have started dating this girl, though yet to sleep with her. But i really wanna be sure before i take that next step because i dont want to hurt her by just walking away after sleeping with her. Hope i will get more responses on this.

[Only-virgins]

i dont want to hurt her by just walking away after sleeping with her.

Why not? She is obviously good at doing that. How old are you and her anyways?

[zorrotosire]

Why not? She is obviously good at doing that. How old are you and her anyways?

well she is 24 and i am 25. but anyway, should the past really matter if you really like the other person?? thats the big debatable question

[Lloyd95]

Bah. I had >30 girls after my first movie came out (Indiana Jones/Temple of Doom).
It's all relative. What's a lot for her might not be for you and visa versa.

[shh!]

You were pretty young, then. Did you even know what to DO with a girl, Lloyd?

[Lloyd95]

No. Still don't

[Only-virgins]

well she is 24 and i am 25. but anyway, should the past really matter if you really like the other person?? thats the big debatable question

Your forced to like people sometimes. I say no, its like telling them that their previous behaviour was acceptable. If you think it was..then go ahead and be with her..if not then you stay away.

[Junket]

Bah. I had >30 girls after my first movie came out (Indiana Jones/Temple of Doom).
It's all relative. What's a lot for her might not be for you and visa versa.

So that really is you eh?

I just assumed all that talk was just an attention getter.