I'm going out of my mind

[xwfuro]

i say, go out on a limb and confront her, ask her if she wants anything more than friends with you or if it is strictly friends.. Friends with benefiets should be completely out of the question because you will get attached.

Tell her to be completely honest , so that you can get an idea of what she really wants. otherwise your going to be posting here everytime you guys hanging out trying to figure out what her mixed signals mean.

[thinker]

thnx, you guys kinda solidified what i thought, i would try today but it's raining, she'll come by tommorow or during the week tho probably, any advice on how to phrase it?

"I'm not your bitch, so please stop stringing me around like a pussy" should do the trick...

[blackiesharley]

Anyway, "friends with benefits" is a stupid arrangement. Someone always gets hurt because they start to fall for the other person.

I couldn't agree with that more.

'Friends with benefits' is a recent catch phrase that really bothers me. Either you're lovers or you're not. I can create my own muscle spasm, thank you.

As yes, someone always gets hurt.

[Junket]

thnx for all the help guys, and I was wondering we just went for an hour and a half long walk, does that change anything.

Yeah of course, you just spent a lot of calories, good for you.

Tell me, what does that have anything to do with anything in relation to your question?

[randomdude]

uhhh.... now that I think about it... nothin really <_<, ah well, but I think I'm gonna go out on a limb and attempt what you said, thnx.

[misombra]

just ask her if she likes you.

you: do you like me?
her: uh, yeah.
you: i mean, do you like me like THAT?
her: yes or no.
you: (acting accordingly)