Tad melodramatic.. eh?
Anyway, we're talking about matters pertaining to sex -- something which is perfectly ok to discuss and ask questions about after the preliminary "getting to know you" routine. That was my point.
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen