What is going on? *kinda long

[PandaCivic]

no wonder they call you IceQueen. ha ha

[IceQueen]

And by "they" you mean me?

Believe me, the problem here is not with my understanding of the situation.

[PandaCivic]

oh no, i didn't mean it that way, i just meant, i'm bummed because i didn't give a good initial first impression. from what i've heard, "a girl knows whether she likes you or not, even before you talk to her" something like that. i'm a very picky person, and when there's someone new i meet, i just get bummed when that one person is actually someone i'm interested in, and they already judge me before they get to know me.

[IceQueen]

from what i've heard, "a girl knows whether she likes you or not, even before you talk to her" ... and they already judge me before they get to know me.

Well, didn't you know whether you liked her before you talked to her, as well?

[PandaCivic]

true...but only based on how she looked. granted, looks get you to thinking about someone, but i wanted to talk to her to see if my initial attraction was worth it. and after having talked to her, i knew what i wanted. i guess it goes both ways.

[IceQueen]

And there you go. You can't expect her to honor your wishes (for her to hook up with you), if you're not willing to honor hers (for you to leave her alone).

[PandaCivic]

well ya, i'm pretty much leaving her alone. i made my offer (if she needs anything help or whichever) to just give me a call or something. maybe a smile here and there but i'm backing off. thanks for slapping me back to reality.

[Zekk_T_Strife]

I don't think this is all Panda's fault, I think this girl has some bitchitude issues. Ignoring emails and ESPECIALLY giving out the wrong number....it's a stupid game that shows her incompetence at social interaction. She could simply say "no thanks, I don't need a study buddy" she doesn't have to push the pipe up her ass that much further in.

[PandaCivic]

so why would she say yes to studying with me initially? and when i asked her if she was free to study, she says yes. when i was talking to her, she was giving me the impression that she wanted to. it's not that i could tell or anything, but she gave me that impression. so is my perception of girls all shot now? cuz i have no clue. one minute i'm introducing myself and i get her name and it's all good, and then the next minute, i'm being advised that she is being a bitch by doing all that shit she's done. which isn't a lot because i've only talked to her like three times.

[IceQueen]

I think this girl has some bitchitude issues

More like super-niceness issues.

She could simply say "no thanks, I don't need a study buddy" she doesn't have to push the pipe up her ass that much further in.

Yeah. We all know how well *that* works. He'd come up with a million different things to invite her to, believe me.

so why would she say yes to studying with me initially?

I believe MVP and myself have already done an adequate job explaining. You're in the same class. You see her weekly. There's no way she can escape. She was trying to stall so that the class would end.

so is my perception of girls all shot now?

What nationality is she? Why not go by her race? So is your perception of Caucasians all shot now?

I thought we were done with this.

[MrX]

The girl prolly got back with a ex bf lol... leave her alone and find another study buddy!

[PandaCivic]

ya, we're done. it was just brought back up. and guess what? she just called. i didn't pick up tho because i'm at work. do i call her back?! or just leave it at that?