Bad boys or Good boys?

[giulia]

Bad. The more tattoos the better, and a few piercings...
I love a bad boy. Good guys kind of irritate me

[Rosebud]

Since I was younger I always found myself being attracted to the bad boy. Maybe because of the sense of adventure or thrill of it all. I have also dated the really good guy and I lost interest right away in the relationship. So I think for me it would have to be somewhere in between.

[Junsui]

I like the good guys more. I've dated bad guys and they're not for me!

[equivo]

the majority of girls prefer bad boys, so tough shit for good guys like me. can't turn myself into one of them unfortunately.

[Lurch]

the majority of girls prefer bad boys, so tough shit for good guys like me. can't turn myself into one of them unfortunately.

I'm no "bad boy" and have no interest in being one. So according to the poll, I guess I have around a snowball's chance in hell...

Go figure...

[equivo]

yep, sucks doesn't it.

not a lot you can do about it either which is the annoying thing.

[gHEXjt]

By good guy/bad guy, I assume you mean sensitive vs. tough guy. Women want men who are sensitive towards THEM and THEIR issues, but are tough when it comes to their own feelings and emotions. We don't want to watch you cry more than maybe once a year, perhaps on your birthday. It makes us nervous.

I hope this was helpful.
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First of all, shh!, why would a guy cry on his birthday?

Secondly, what is used to determine if a guy is a bad guy as opposed to good?

[shh!]

Oh, yeah - I forgot that most men don't cry on their birthdays. They start marathon training instead (once they turn 40, that is). I only used the birthday as an example because it only happens once a year, which is as often as I'd be comfortable watching a man cry.

Good guy = sensitive
bad guy = insensitive

[misombra]

i like smart, good looking boys.

[gHEXjt]

Oh, yeah - I forgot that most men don't cry on their birthdays. They start marathon training instead (once they turn 40, that is). I only used the birthday as an example because it only happens once a year, which is as often as I'd be comfortable watching a man cry.

Good guy = sensitive
bad guy = insensitive

If that's the barometer, than what says someone is insensitive. What if you are sensitive about your girl's feelings, but don't say anything about your own. As in, you hold everything in, and never share how you feel.

[shh!]

Umm... gHEXjt? You realize my original post was meant to be taken lightly, right? I was only kidding...

[gHEXjt]

Umm... gHEXjt? You realize my original post was meant to be taken lightly, right? I was only kidding...

That's fine. But I still want to know what the difference is, and I really don't even understand what makes a guy insensitive?

[Chlorine]

Bad. At least they're upfront about it.

[sasa91]

Bad Boy = Sexy, Mysterious
Good Boy = Sweet but no fun

[NeoSeminole]

I guess this is where guys and girls differ in their logic. If you ask most guys what they want, they will tell you they want a nice girl. There are so many stuck up bitches these days. It's hard to find a decent girl worth dating. The nice guy is sweet, caring, sensitive, and romantic. He will usually go out of his way to please girls. Hell, if a girl wanted to do all that for me I wouldn't hesitate to date her.