How do I flirt?

[IndiReloaded]

A woman doesn't need all of that for me to approach her. Even to date her. Even to be in a relationship with her.

Top two qualities:

1. Look decent (So I can be attracted to you)
2. Be a good person (I.e. be kind and don't hurt others)

You say 'top' qualities. That implies there are more.

If those are your only criteria, then you should have them queued up down the street and around the corner. But I don't believe you. I'm 99% certain that someone intelligent is also pretty high up on your list.

In any case, that's just you. There are a lot of men who do want it all. Trouble is, the perfect woman is usually also seeking the perfect man.

[Tedel]

After that ^, don't ever dare to call me chessy

My 0.02 here: Wear a little more eye-cathcing clothes, without turning yourself to slutty. That should draw the attention of a few prospects.

[Gigabitch]

My 0.02 here: Wear a little more eye-cathcing clothes, without turning yourself to slutty. That should draw the attention of a few prospects.

Examples? I'm curious where guys think the line is.

[Mish]

You say 'top' qualities. That implies there are more.

I said top qualities because even though other qualities may be beneficial, they are not a requirement. Those two qualities are enough for a good and satisfying relationship for me, and I don't need any sugar on top if I have these two.

If those are your only criteria, then you should have them queued up down the street and around the corner. But I don't believe you. I'm 99% certain that someone intelligent is also pretty high up on your list.

Well that's the thing Indi, I don't. I don't have them queued up down the street and around the corner. A good question is why? Is it too much to ask for? What is it that's stopping me from finding someone with these two qualities? I go out and look, but I can seldom find them. Maybe a woman would have them lined up for her, because she doesn't have to do a lot of work to get in contact (with lots and lots and lots of people out of which she can choose from). For guys it's a different story. An annoying one at that.

Btw, someone intelligent is a benefit not a requirement.

In any case, that's just you. There are a lot of men who do want it all. Trouble is, the perfect woman is usually also seeking the perfect man.

Well, I'm not interested in a perfect woman. Just a decent one. But it looks like most decent ones also look for a perfect man.

And you know what the funniest twist of irony is? The ones who say that they look for a decent guy are the ones with the highest standards out of them all.

[Gigabitch]

Btw, someone intelligent is a benefit not a requirement.

But aren't we all just looking for potential mates? This is basically the urge to procreate and ensure our progeny have a good chance of survival, underneath it all. Isn't intelligence important? Crucial?

It is for me. I couldn't date a dumb guy.

[Mish]

But aren't we all just looking for potential mates? This is basically the urge to procreate and ensure our progeny have a good chance of survival, underneath it all. Isn't intelligence important? Crucial?

It is for me. I couldn't date a dumb guy.

That's why I come with an extra supply. If neccessary my intelligence genes will take over and I will nurture the rest.

But Imo, a person who knows to be kind and do good things without hurting people is intelligent already.

[vashti]

I can prove you aren't being honest, mish. I think I am decent-looking, and I am also a good person, which I know is true because of my many years of volunteer service to the poor. There is no way you would date me, because we would kill each other, for sure.

[Mish]

I can prove you aren't being honest, mish. I think I am decent-looking, and I am also a good person, which I know is true because of my many years of volunteer service to the poor. There is no way you would date me, because we would kill each other, for sure.

I would date you because I like you Vash, but even though you consider yourself to be a good person and you appear to be generous, you still have a tendency to hurt people sometimes. Sometimes reasonably and sometimes unreasonably. That's why I specifically stated to be kind and not hurt others as well. Because that's a deal breaker for me.



Now, Indi on the other hand, ..........hmmmm

[Gigabitch]

Now, Indi on the other hand, ..........hmmmm

Indi is evil too. All us old chicks are.

[Mish]

Indi is evil too. All us old chicks are.

There was a time I used to think that too


But, I saw the light

[vashti]

I would date you because I like you Vash, but even though you consider yourself to be a good person and you appear to be generous, you still have a tendency to hurt people sometimes.

Haha, you are a liar! Anyway, the truth is sometimes painful.

[Mish]

Haha, you are a liar! Anyway, the truth is sometimes painful.

See, little thing like that. Calling someone who's genuinely honest a liar and so on.

This would be the main reason why you and I wouldn't work out, even though I do like you and wish the best for you.

[IndiReloaded]

Indi is evil too. All us old chicks are.

Just so happens that certain kinds of pain is actually good for you. Takes being old to learn that one.

Anyway, you know very well I'm married, scamp. You need a version of me 15 years younger. Try the local medical school.

[Mish]

Just so happens that certain kinds of pain is actually good for you. Takes being old to learn that one.

Actually, that's very true. Like work out, it hurts but it builds you up.

But there's also pain that tears you down as well. I like to avoid that one.

Anyway, you know very well I'm married, scamp. You need a version of me 15 years younger. Try the local medical school.

I'm on it!

Do I need to enrol or can I just stalk the canteen area?


By the way, Vash is married as well. That didn't stop her dating me

[IndiReloaded]

By the way, Vash is married as well. That didn't stop her dating me

She told me she was helping you over your ex by being your 'safe rebound girl'. Someone who wouldn't take unfair advantage of you. She let you go when you were ready to fly again, fledgling.