Help with a dilemma

[Fawn]

Confidence is good. But, I also like the shy types as well. Its like they are this hidden or mysterious person. For some reason, it intrigues me. Some of the shy types have some surprises and its fun figure them out. Probably a good reason as to why I usually ask guys out. lol. I'm not much for waiting.

[Chatters_nz]

if you gals sometimes like shy types, why is it that we guys always have to make the first move?
im so shy that that doesnt happen