how can i forget someone?

[uri]

Unrequited love sucks. Being in love with someone who will never love you back is a painful experience. You feel hopeless, worthless and rejected. You may believe that this person is your one and only. I also have a crush on someone but she will never love me back because she is already married.

The best is to get out and see other men, keep yourself busy with the things you like, spend a lot of time with family and friends and talk it over.

[Only-virgins]

I don't know what people mean anymore when they say "crush". Is it love that you are not allowed to have?

[IndiReloaded]

I don't know what people mean anymore when they say "crush". Is it love that you are not allowed to have?

Crush = strong but fleeting feelings.

There's no such thing as 'love you're not allowed to have' & you know it.

To the OP: your feelings just mean that you are ready to be having a relationship of your own. B/c you don't have someone for yourself at the moment, you are just projecting those feelings onto someone who has the qualities you think you would like. Take Vash's advice & look for someone (available) like that. They are out there, looking for you.

[Only-virgins]

Crush = strong but fleeting feelings.

Sounds like love to me. Nothing lasts forever.

[coldsea]

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[DoesntMatter]

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[DarkDwarf]

Hi all,
I had a crush (maybe more than just a crush - any standardized measurement?) with a guy - one of my tutors at uni. He's just attractive to me in many ways. But, he doesnt love me (at all), and he is going to get married next year.

I know, I dont have any chance to get him. Not even to be his friend. He's just a tutor and i'm his student. I know that, i am really aware of that.

But still, I cant forget him.. I still *always* cry when i remember him. I always want to cry when i attend his tute class.. in fact, i always want to cry everytime i see him. phew. sounds ridiculous, isn't it?

Well.. i try to smile.. but still i cant.

anyone had any idea, suggestion, comment, advice.. on how to forget someone? ive tried.. but i still dont manage to do that.

thanks!

As my cousin once told me the first time I got dumped... There are many fish in the sea. Though it may be a long time, a new one will eventually come along.

Besides, it's been my experience that couples that are truly happy are made up of people who are fine with being alone too! So, until you find another, find some good music, look up an old friend, and have a couple months of 'You-Time', without worrying about anyone guys.

[gartlas]

Run away.Have a long holiday or go and stay at a relatives.Pursue a hobby,do something else with your life or you'll never get over it

[AlwaysOnMyMind]

All the best with your situation x

[AlwaysOnMyMind]

Its never easy to try and NOT think about someone, but time will help