first date question?

[shh!]

it was just ONE idea, lol, I've never done it. So I'll leave it at that. Maybe I shouldn't have tried to help this thread. I've never had a formal first date where I brought a gift. My relationships have all begun much more casually. I wouldn't bring anything to tell you the truth. Make this girl see that bringing yourelf to the damn date is QUITE ENOUGH. Be the man.

Don't be silly! Of course you should try to help! I completely agree about the lack of necessity in bringing a gift on the first date. Gifts can make the receiver feel a sense of obligation that ought not exist so early on.

[whaywardj]

I dunno. The sooner they feel obligated, the sooner you can manipulate them.

[sasa91]

um. A girl always likes flowers. but seeing as thouhg its your FIRST date. I don't know. But yeah, a flower would definitely be a good first impression XD

[MVPlaya]

hi guys,
im new to this forum and im liking it so far Well what my question is that what should i take with me to my first date?? like should i give her flower or something else. I was thinking some else cause i want to be different than other peopel but cant think of what to give her. So can you guys please give me some ideas. Thanks

Don't give her anything.

Seriously.

[Rosebud]

Well because your wanting to do something differnet I really don't know what to tell you but I think flowers are always a nice getsure.