Pros and Cons

**Indignant** · 31-12-08, 05:31 AM

why overthink everything....

**Charlie Boy II** · 31-12-08, 05:38 AM

Originally Posted by misombra

poor sammy. somebody should warn her.

warn her about what??

**misombra** · 31-12-08, 05:45 AM

about the heartbreak.

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**Gigabitch** · 31-12-08, 07:33 AM

Every time I see this thread, I think about prostitutes and grifters.

**Charlie Boy II** · 31-12-08, 07:35 AM

I think you're getting a bit ahead of yourself there misombra. Like I said, she might say no and then I'll look like a right tool.

Anyway, she's a big girl.

**Gigabitch** · 31-12-08, 07:37 AM

Yeah, especially in the front.

**misombra** · 31-12-08, 07:41 AM

Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II

I think you're getting a bit ahead of yourself there misombra. Like I said, she might say no and then I'll look like a right tool.

Anyway, she's a big girl.

lol i was joking but whatev.

i doubt she'll say no.

**vashti** · 31-12-08, 08:36 AM

Originally Posted by Charlie Boy II

Hah! The other night was not a prospective three-some. The other girl just said she didn't want to sleep on her own. And it was about 5am by the time we got to bed, so no one was feeling all that fiesty.

In terms of this girl's dating history - let's call her Sammy - has had mostly serious boyfriends with some significant stretches of singledom and some casual associations.

Anyway, she may well say no to a date, so this may all be moot anyway. I'm going to ask her today.

ooh! Keep us posted. I bet she accepts.

**Charlie Boy II** · 31-12-08, 10:43 PM

Alright, well I asked her. I'll relay the conversation, conducted by text, message below:

Edit: removed.

So I don't really know how to read that exchange. My first instinct is that it's a negative response and I should leave it there. I mean if a girl want's a date she's going to cancel a barbecue. I wouldn't entertain the idea of driving an hour north to meet her because that would be slovenly.

**starbuck** · 31-12-08, 10:47 PM

I don't know CB. Maybe she really wants to go to this BBQ and it's too late to cancel on her friends. (I know mine would give me hell for cancelling). And she mentions catching up when you get back so that seems like a good sign.

I don't think it's negative. Maybe she's just trying to take it slow as well.

Simmer down there, baby. What's the rush?

**Gigabitch** · 31-12-08, 11:27 PM

Don't tweak, CB. She's down to earth, right? That means she's not going to change plans to go on a date, even with you. it's not necessarily a rejection.

**vashti** · 31-12-08, 11:37 PM

Since you haven't established a dating relationship, she may have only considered your invite to be platonic. Don't stress yet. Ask her again in about a week, and ask her for a date further in advance than a couple of days.

**Charlie Boy II** · 01-01-09, 08:32 AM

yeah on reading it again this morning, it's not so bad. I guess I'll see what happens.

**IndiReloaded** · 01-01-09, 09:21 AM

Relax, CB. This girl sounds like she can set boundaries and knows what she wants. Also, sounds like she made a prior commitment & that's important to her. She was polite to you even tho you put some pressure on her (yep, its obvious--careful there).

I can see why you like her. These traits are good ones but you won't be able to push her around, I think. Steady on, young man.

**Charlie Boy II** · 01-01-09, 03:57 PM

yes, you're right I suppose I was a bit pushy. I guess once I make a decision like that I get impatient to just make it happen.

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