Can guys REALLY be trusted?

[modeus]

I don't know about others, but I will never cheat on my girlfriend firstly because since I am with someone I respect her too much to do that and cheating is like betraying a friend's trust. If I like/love her it makes matters even easyer.

[the_robot]

Sure thing Indie. But, can you give me one name?

I can be trusted.

[Raze]

-You sound like a feminist who thinks all men are evil. If you believe that all men are evil people and are a bunch of man-whores/cheats, then you need to join a feminist group where you can sip tea and bitch about men all the time.

-I'm a man and I take offense to being associated with that lot just because some women have had bad experiences with men.

-If you believe that all men are like this, you need a serious reality check.

-I think you need more friends who don't have a one-track mind.

I seriously hate all that men are evil ways of thinking.

[Mish]

Sometimes listening to some of the posters here you'd think that you live on another planet where the sky is the colour of the union jack and all objects gravitate towards the moon.

[vashti]

You sound like a feminist who thinks all men are evil. If you believe that all men are evil people and are a bunch of man-whores/cheats, then you need to join a feminist group where you can bitch about men all the time.

What if she thinks all men are evil, are a bunch of man-whores and cheats, but she likes them anyway?

[the_robot]

What if she thinks all men are evil, are a bunch of man-whores and cheats, but she likes them anyway?

That's called masochism

[Raze]

That's called masochism

Time to get the studded whip and shackles.

[originalsince85]

i was recently burnt pretty bad by a girl cheating on me time and again, lying constantly two me, and actually living two lives.

for a little while i wondered if i could trust women at all again, then i realized, its not gender specific. its person specific. EVERYONE is different.

i think cheating is not on at all, but a guy at work thinks that if you can get away with it why not cheat, men or women. which i disagree with, but everyone is entitled to their opnion, me and him.

you may never trust your boyfriend or ex-boyfriend? again, but that shouldnt stop you trusting men in general. i know some very stand-up guys, of which i like to think i am one! :-)

hope that helps some xx

[boobaa]

People lie, cheat, steal and are immoral in many ways. Deal with it.

[Gigabitch]

My brother says that males need an opportunity, and they will cheat, and women need a reason.

That is brilliant.

[vashti]

That is brilliant.

It was probably the only brilliant thing he's said in his entire life, poor man.

[IndiReloaded]

I can be trusted.

I don't disbelieve you, but how do you know? IMO, one can only really make this claim if they've had their feet to the fire and still managed to walk away.

And, FWIW, I have done this.

[the_robot]

I don't disbelieve you, but how do you know? IMO, one can only really make this claim if they've had their feet to the fire and still managed to walk away.

Maybe you are right, but I find hard to believe I'd ever even want to cheat.

[Raze]

Anyone can overcome the urge to cheat.

[IndiReloaded]

Maybe you are right, but I find hard to believe I'd ever even want to cheat.

Noone wants to cheat, except for a few rare freaks who get with someone with that intention.

Anyone can overcome the urge to cheat.

Sadly, this forum says otherwise. There are an awful lot of people who don't [overcome the urge]. It really boils down to your reasons not to cheat being >>> than your reasons for it. This requires some thinking and decision-making skills. Not everyone's cup of tea.