Eughh, stories like your Qwert are scary. Make me get paranoid ...
I took depo shot, but if you're vulnerable to depression , it's not a thing for you.
I've heard that patches have high risk of side effects, read some articles about it.
Pills... Pills are pills , I take some and it's the best solution for me, I take them regularly, at the same time of a day and it works. But then again my bf doesn't get off inside just because we consider it too messy
And last but not least; there are just few days in the month that you're fertile... With all the precautions, you must have really a (BAD) luck to get pregnant