The first time you had sex

[anonymous_a]

You weren't tight because you were young, Starnique. You felt tighter because you were more nervous and not fully relaxed. Now you feel more comfortable, that's why it has no trouble slipping in. If you really had lost "tightness" during the years, you wouldn't have those "walls to grip him with".

Having lots of sex will not make a vagina less tight. Only aging and childbirth (in some cases) will.

This is so true and I love it! So many people call slutty girls "loose." I get the idea of the term, but realistically, it doesn't make sense lol.

[smackie9]

My first time? Not nervous, wasn't painful, guy was well hung, I was not in love, it was fun and spontaneous.

[Rowen]

Can you remember the first time you had sex and how nervous you were beforehand, were you worried about how to do it properly and how to perform properly. I remember being worried that i wouldnt have a clue what to do, i think it all happens naturally in end and the worry is far worse than the actually event, what ya reckon

I was incredibly nervous the first time- not that I'd perform badly but that I'd either get caught sneaking out/having sex or be savagely murdered... In the end, it all worked out and Nick and I had a wonderful time together. We were in the bed of his father's brand new pickup...The sticker was still in the window. :S

[fearoflove]

omg...can't stop thinking about it. It was kind of rough and he threw me around, totally in control. Love the rough sex.

[Starnique]

You weren't tight because you were young, Starnique. You felt tighter because you were more nervous and not fully relaxed. Now you feel more comfortable, that's why it has no trouble slipping in. If you really had lost "tightness" during the years, you wouldn't have those "walls to grip him with".

Having lots of sex will not make a vagina less tight. Only aging and childbirth (in some cases) will.

No.

I was tight and it hurted because I was virgin. Me being young, no that has nothing to do with it per se. I was very relaxed. I wanted it. His dick was big and my pussy was tight. Period. I already know that I'm not loose and out of shape. Thanks but that wasn't my point. Of course I'm not tight as I was when I was virgin, who is? As time went on yes it was easier. I couldn't take dick for the longest but it had nothing to do with me not being relaxed. I was. My vagina had to get used to it.

[searock]

You were emotionally relaxed, but for your body it was still a very new experience, so naturally the "gut reaction" of the vagina was to contract its muscles. That's why it felt tighter than it does now. I'm saying that your vagina isn't less tight now than it was when you were less sexually experienced. It doesn't work that way, biologically: vaginas don't get "loose" or "less tight" after having (even a lot of) sex. They only lose elasticity and tightness through aging and childbirth (in some cases).

[Starnique]

Btw, there are sluts out there who is not old or have kids and their vaginas are worn out from years of being pounded excessively with different people. That's like trying to say a regular girl vagina is about the same as porn stars. Bullshit.

[Starnique]

Okay, I understand and I accept that but I still stand by my second post about the sluts. = ). Plus, I've asked several guys about that and they will tell you that some chics are really uncomfortably loose. Not like us, but sluts. The real ones. Less tight, elasticity...loose is loose.

[searock]

I know that some guys will say that, but there has to be some other reason to make those girls feel looser than "regular" girls. Medically speaking, having lots of sex simply does not cause vaginas to lose elasticity and become less tight. http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201109/the-rare-truth-about-tight-and-loose-women

It is possible that those guys are insecure about their own girth/length, and blame it on the girls's looseness. Or maybe they misinterpret a very lubricated, "horny" vagina for a "loose" vagina (this is probably the worse misconception, because they should be happy to have sex with a really horny woman, instead of complaining because she "is loose"). Or maybe they are simply slut-shaming. Or maybe, those "slutty" women have given birth and haven't been able to regain their original tightness again. Who knows. There can be many reasons, but "they have lots of sex, therefore their vagina is loose" doesn't make sense, medically speaking.

[smackie9]

Btw, there are sluts out there who is not old or have kids and their vaginas are worn out from years of being pounded excessively with different people. That's like trying to say a regular girl vagina is about the same as porn stars. Bullshit.

Porn stars don't have sex everyday with 20 guys. They might do one to 2 shoots a week, then nothing for a month or so.

[Simpo]

Well... depending on if you would class it as sex or not but basically she grind-ed on top of me for about 5 minutes then as soon as it went in... I came out instantly but real first time was much better and lasted slightly longer and less nerve racking. I can imagine it being a lot harder for the women with having to break her "insert name of thing since I can't remember " and also women tend to be tight before losing virginity and I can imagine that being quite hard and unpleasant the first few times

[searock]

and also women tend to be tight before losing virginity and I can imagine that being quite hard and unpleasant the first few times

Women aren't tighter before they lose their virginity. Virgins generally feel tighter than non-virgins because they are less relaxed and their vagina spontaneously contracts, because it isn't used to having things inserted in it. It has nothing to do with the actual anatomy, it's simply a contraction of muscles. Only aging and childbirth can make vaginas become less tight.

[smackie9]

It's not like that for every woman. It didn't hurt for me (had np stretching to fit him andf he wasn't small either) and had np with it afterwards. Still as firm at the day I was born too.

[LifeInflux]

Still as firm at the day I was born too.

I'm sure thats an image we're all glad to have now. Thanks.

[HeartIsAching]

No.

I was tight and it hurted because I was virgin. Me being young, no that has nothing to do with it per se. I was very relaxed. I wanted it. His dick was big and my pussy was tight. Period. I already know that I'm not loose and out of shape. Thanks but that wasn't my point. Of course I'm not tight as I was when I was virgin, who is? As time went on yes it was easier. I couldn't take dick for the longest but it had nothing to do with me not being relaxed. I was. My vagina had to get used to it.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201109/the-rare-truth-about-tight-and-loose-women