Am I over-reacting?

[King Zarathu]

Good thing for you I am an expert IM slapper.

I asked you if you had AIM, MSN, Yahoo, Jabber, IRC, or Skype, and you said no.

[b*tch]

I've been dating this girl for roughly 3 months. I haven't seen or talked to her for the past week and a half because she is doing something called Summer Intensive. She is a dancer and for a week and a half every year. They dance for like 9 hours a day. Well she just got back and I messaged her on MySpace and asked when she wanted to do something again.

A month ago she would of messaged me back before I could blink, but its been 3 days and she hasn't messaged me back. I can see that she read the message 2 days ago.

I would call her, but 1) her mom didn't really approve of us going out in the first place (so everytime I DO call her, her mom makes me really nervous) and 2) I don't know what I would say. I can't really ask if she got my message (which I know she did) and is just ignoring it.

I don't know if I'm just overreacting or what. Help me.

Darkdwarf,

I can feel that you very inlove with this girl when I read your post and it's so bad that her mom doesn't agree.

She doesn't have a cellphone? It's good to call in her cellphone because you are sure it's her who'll pick up the phone.

Also, try to PM her in YM, MSN, AOL and whatever stuff that involves PM.

Let's say she read your msg already in myspace but what if she's busy and tired so she wasnt' able to reply.

[vashti]

I asked you if you had AIM, MSN, Yahoo, Jabber, IRC, or Skype, and you said no.

I don't, and I've never even heard of half of what you've listed. I assume they all work the same way, though, and you know I've had to e-slap YOU a few times. Don't MAKE me do it again.

[Gigabitch]

Oh, he wants you to do it again.

[DarkDwarf]

Now she's IMing me and calling me a self-obsessed jerk. I didn't even do anything except tell her I didn't want to talk to her.

[Gigabitch]

She sounds like a real prize. Try to get the hostilities over with before you have to see her in public- she'll probably throw something at you otherwise.

[DarkDwarf]

I'm doing my best to. It's hard to remember that she was the one that broke up with me, and not the other way around. She needs to see a therapist.

[vashti]

This is why it is best to avoid teenage girls. They are crazy.

[DarkDwarf]

So I should date girls around the ages of 12 or 20.

That's why I love this forum. Its full of great advice.

[vashti]

So I should date girls around the ages of 12 or 20.

Don't be silly. We are suggesting you become a monk.

[DarkDwarf]

Ohhh!!! Ok :d

[King Zarathu]

...all threads should be in the "Ask A Male" forum, and the "Ask A Female" forum should just be deleted.

[DarkDwarf]

...Now I'm confused. I have know idea why you said that.

Maybe we should all just become monks. Then we could shutdown the Love Forum.

[Junket]

...all threads should be in the "Ask A Male" forum, and the "Ask A Female" forum should just be deleted.

It's like having a men's and women's bathrooms that we all use interchangeably anyway.

[DarkDwarf]

Then we should delete the bathrooms. That would solve the problem.