Any advice about how to approach this situation?
He totally thinks its no big deal if everyone left for the day and no one will ever find out because he is the biggest tech employee that they have there.
Any advice about how to approach this situation?
He totally thinks its no big deal if everyone left for the day and no one will ever find out because he is the biggest tech employee that they have there.
Well him saying no one will ever find out is crazy! someone could come back into the office and catch him.
what is it that bothers you about this? Is it that he could get caught? or that he does it at work? Or that the porn itself bothers you? I think you should find out why your bothered by this to find out how to approach him..
If you can't handle the thorns, don't crave the rose!!
Your boyfriend's attitude is bad and he is flirting with disaster. I bet he thinks that he is really sly..try this out: suppose the owner knows that he is there after hours fixing all the odds and ends on the computer. Suppose the owner is begininning to wonder why the power is being left on for 20-30 minutes (while he is jerking off watching his smut) when its a computer problem that takes 5-7 minutes to fix. GOOD OWNER/MANAGERS WATCH OUT FOR THIS KIND OF STUFF. All the owner has to do is install a camera the size of a pin that costs less than $50. I have done this before and I have busted my employees. Thankfully, I didn't catch any jerking off on tape ......but nonetheless I have caught them.Originally Posted by Rosebud
You need to ask yourself these questions. Are you bitter because he is preoccupied with porn? If you are only concerned from a career standpoint... then let him learn from his own mistakes. Being professional is NOT something that you can ingrain into someone else.Originally Posted by Rosebud
Last edited by carpflounder; 25-10-05 at 06:38 AM.
wow! carp actually agree with me on something?? i'm shocked right now!
If you can't handle the thorns, don't crave the rose!!
C'mon is it that hard to agree with carp? I think that most of the time you all agree with me.Originally Posted by Rosebud
Maybe I'm just pushing my luck
Originally Posted by carpflounder
yeah I think your pushing it with that statement!!!!! But it's the other way around dearie!!! you agreed with me!!!!!!
If you can't handle the thorns, don't crave the rose!!
It must be a sign..you and me....
LOL! Here I thought you just liked fighting with me!!!!! Haha the truth comes out!!!!!!
If you can't handle the thorns, don't crave the rose!!
I'm a lover...not a fighter...you wanna try me?
LOL, you are not!!! you love fighting with me I have posts to show it.....
*sticks her tongue out*
If you can't handle the thorns, don't crave the rose!!
I think your confusing disagreeing with fighting. Got any pics?
my pics are in the gallery.. maybe I'll add some more tonight if I feel the urge. Now wait a minute here you had called me a slut in one of my first threads!!!!! that's what I was talking about their spanky!!!! not the other stuff!!!
If you can't handle the thorns, don't crave the rose!!
I NEVER called you or anyone else a "slut" on this board. I remember saying that "Girls with tongue rings tend to be slutty." I never said that you are because you have one...I never even said that having one makes you a slut.Originally Posted by Rosebud
Highlight in quotes where I call you that.
This is a problem on a number of levels. I guess number one is that if he gets fired, we lose our health insurance - not good since we have a two year old son. I just graduated school this past may and am looking for a job. he is our only source of income right now and we just bought a house is august. if he loses his job we will be seriously f*cked. And then there is the fact that he is staying late to *fix* something instead of coming home. what does that have to say about how much he looks forward to coming home to wife and son????
[QUOTE=jendenovum] I just graduated school this past may
I just finished my BA - we arent high school with a kid, lol