Is two months too soon to really be in love?

[Anthony]

Jakki, with no disrespect intended, if you genuinely loved your partner you wouldn't be asking these types of questions. Having doubts about a relationship is normal, however continually second-guessing your relationship when there is obviously a lack of trust and commitment should be worth raising a warning flag.

To answer your question, there is no preset timeline that determines when you should be falling in love with someone, you simply know when it's happening; that doesn't mean that both partners shouldn't proceed with caution if they aren't well familiar with each other.

[LucidDream]

Nobody believes in love at first sight then?

[LucidDream]

Omg and I thought 3 months was too soon!

[KirstyM]

Nobody believes in love at first sight then?

Well technically if you met your partner online then you could fall in love with them on first sight.

[Illusional]

haha..things are never the way that they seem. never fall in love with someone until you have met them. raverboy

[kanzaki]

well, 2 months mite b alittle short. But when love comes, it comes. here is some senario that may help u by bit

1) my friend T (aged 18) know this guy who works at the food court, W (aged 25) and the next day, they confessed to each other. Then, in one month, they were married. <last week to b exact, i was the flower girl XP>

2) another friend of mine meet this guy and 4 months later they were married. They lived happily ever afetr. Both will do ANYTHING and i mean ANYTHING for each other. n it's been 12 years since they got married

3) last is a bad one, knoweach other for one month, got too deep, now canot run away from each other as they are forced to b with each other (they had a baby, that's y) u c them screaming at each other

[jakki2903]

well, 2 months mite b alittle short. But when love comes, it comes. here is some senario that may help u by bit

1) my friend T (aged 18) know this guy who works at the food court, W (aged 25) and the next day, they confessed to each other. Then, in one month, they were married. <last week to b exact, i was the flower girl XP>

2) another friend of mine meet this guy and 4 months later they were married. They lived happily ever afetr. Both will do ANYTHING and i mean ANYTHING for each other. n it's been 12 years since they got married

3) last is a bad one, knoweach other for one month, got too deep, now canot run away from each other as they are forced to b with each other (they had a baby, that's y) u c them screaming at each other

Hi, thanks for the three scenarios!
We've been together just over 2 months now and he's been saying he wants to marry me. He's 28 and he says that I am the woman of his dreams and that I am 'the one'. I feel the same way as he does. Should I be cautious??

[abercromqt20]

man i would run for this hills to if someone proposed to me that quickly. i'm not denying that you could fall in love that amount of time, but still i think you should stick it out longer than that to make sure b4 you get engaged. you may be in love, or you may just be falling in love with him. it doesn't always have to just be love or lust. unless you've truely been in love b4 i think it's hard to distinguish between love and falling in love. especially when ur young.

[KirstyM]

Hi, thanks for the three scenarios!
We've been together just over 2 months now and he's been saying he wants to marry me. He's 28 and he says that I am the woman of his dreams and that I am 'the one'. I feel the same way as he does. Should I be cautious??

The fact that you are even asking that suggests you already are.