Friends w/ benefits...older woman neighbor

[anachronistic]

Make her purrrrrr!

[Cain]

Blah.

All these sex threads are doing nothing but remind me that I'm going to be sexless for a while.

[Junket]

Blah.

All these sex threads are doing nothing but remind me that I'm going to be sexless for a while.

But you don't haaaaave to beeeee.

C'mon, you're virtually a free man.

[Cain]

But you don't haaaaave to beeeee.

C'mon, you're virtually a free man.

A free man with too much pride to be a hypocrite.

I'm definitely moving on though... unless something progresses during this next visit that makes me think we're gonna make it. Until then, I'm moving on.

I am thankful that the breakup made me realize something... I used to believe in "soul mates," but I definitely don't anymore. Believing in soul mates would mean that I believe in fate and destiny and I don't. I believe in free will.

As long as my ex believes in fate, we won't make it.

[Charlie Boy II]

I'm not talking about myself, but if you look around this forum I reckon its the realists that have the better success with relationships. It's the stubborn romantics that you get on here day after day, that get themselves in a mess.

[Illusional]

how old are you anyways??

secondly, how do you go about it?? just do as you are doing now... keep talking to her and eventually you'll be able to stick it in her.

raverboy

[anachronistic]

Blah.

All these sex threads are doing nothing but remind me that I'm going to be sexless for a while.

Porn!

You can watch porn now.

And you can go get yourself a nice rubber vagina.

[Tired]

how old are you anyways??

secondly, how do you go about it?? just do as you are doing now... keep talking to her and eventually you'll be able to stick it in her.

raverboy

23 , i'm a little baby boy. The last woman i was with is 39 now so...maybe its a phase

[CAM]

she is always @ home, she doesn't really go out from what i can tell. So, she doesn't put herself in much of a position to be pursued by random men out and about it seems.

Go get her. Duh. Its like hunting; Bambi just doesn't naturally run into the net...you have to chase her a bit. Turn on the charm, smile. Nobody can resist responding to someone with a smile. Seriously. It's very disarming.

Go ring her ****ing doorbell and ask her to go for a walk or out for a drink or something. Don't sound desperate, sound cool. Sound confident. Get the attitude. The attitude, as Mike Damone would say, "Dictates that you care whether she comes, stays, lays, or prays....no matter what happens, your toes are still tapping."

Do we have to hold your hand or what? Go get the woman.

[CAM]

Porn!

You can watch porn now.

And you can go get yourself a nice rubber vagina.

Reminds me of a song...Electric Barbarella

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w-oxkkkpeYQ"]YouTube - Electric Barbarella - duran duran[/ame]

[Illusional]

23 , i'm a little baby boy. The last woman i was with is 39 now so...maybe its a phase

bottom line, you're young and she's willing to f*ck you.. any questions??

raverboy

[CAM]

bottom line, you're young and she's willing to f*ck you.. any questions??

raverboy

As long as our standards are that low, the ladies will drag us around by the nose.

If you **** her, do it without emotional attachment. She wants meat, you want ass...its as simple as that. Make it into something more and it becomes a power play. And, you lose.

Good luck and best wishes for a disease free experience.

[CAM]

"willing to **** you..." like she's offering a gift. Sex is not a special gift...in the words of Phoebe Cates (FTRH)..."its just sex."

[shh!]

As long as our standards are that low, the ladies will drag us around by the nose.

If you **** her, do it without emotional attachment. She wants meat, you want ass...its as simple as that. Make it into something more and it becomes a power play. And, you lose.

Good luck and best wishes for a disease free experience.

It's silly to allow irrational fears of being drug around by the nose prevent you from having sex with a willing partner, if that's what you want to do. Just have your boundaries in place, be honest about your limitations, and have fun. And wear a condom.