How ask for oral sex

[sparkle_jello]

Giving head isn't a FAVOR, it's an act of love. If I suspect a guy "expected it" he should bend over and suck his own dick 'cause I sure wouldn't be.

I totally disagree. Why does every sexual act have to be about love? Sometimes it's just raw, in the moment, passion, that should have anything to do with love and everything to do with screwing the shit out of something.

[sparkle_jello]

I totally disagree. Why does every sexual act have to be about love? Sometimes it's just raw, in the moment, passion, that should have anything to do with love and everything to do with screwing the shit out of something.

correction::: that shouldn't have anything to do with love and everything to do with screwing the shit out of something

[Incognito]

Isn't the easiest solution to go down on her with her sitting on your face facing your cock? Why? Well this is a perfect set up to 69. If she is receiving oral while looking at a hard cock and does nothing then your only other option is to discuss it. As spoonandfork pointed out though you should be able to discuss any issue with someone who your in a relationship with. I'd be curious as to why she doesn't want to talk about sex even though she seems to have a pretty good sex drive.

[Boisdevie]

In my last two relationships women were only too happy for me to give them oral but reluctant to reciprocate - perhaps some women are less liberated than others?

[Incognito]

Perhaps that is why the relationships didn't last. Going down on someone is putting yourself in a compromising/submissive position because everything is being done for the receivers pleasure. Maybe they were simply selfish women and that selfishness affected other areas besides sex. Why did those relationships end, in your opinion?

[sparkle_jello]

I've talked to friends of mine on why they wouldn't give oral sex, and I've had a couple say they were germaphobes.

[Incognito]

That is BS. The same germs that would be in your vagina after having sex are the same ones that would be in your mouth after having oral sex. People are so freakin stupid and don't even know it. If anything the person who is receiving should be the one to worry. There are way more germs inside the human mouth than on a penis. It is apparently safer to get bit by a dog than a person because of the amount of bacteria found in human mouths. Tell your friends to simply come to grips with the fact that they are selfish.

[sparkle_jello]

That is BS. The same germs that would be in your vagina after having sex are the same ones that would be in your mouth after having oral sex. People are so freakin stupid and don't even know it.

I never said I subscribed to the theory. And I don't know how those friends were about receiving, they may not have. Personally, I think if you are with someone you should do everything in your power to make them satisfied sexually short of anything to do with urine, feces (although anal is acceptable), children, animals, and power tools.

[Incognito]

I wasn't trying to give the impression that you somehow agreed with those people, sorry if I did. I agree with what you say right here. It does make me think about a porn I saw a long time ago where someone had attached a dildo to a reciprocating saw. Would you ever try that? I only ask because you seem pretty open.

[sparkle_jello]

I wasn't trying to give the impression that you somehow agreed with those people, sorry if I did. I agree with what you say right here. It does make me think about a porn I saw a long time ago where someone had attached a dildo to a reciprocating saw. Would you ever try that? I only ask because you seem pretty open.

Please review my previous post....

[Incognito]

Ok ok. When you said no power tools I was thinking more along the lines of inflicting pain, but I suppose that you mean absolutely no power tools under any circumstances. What about a Sybian?

[sparkle_jello]

Ok ok. When you said no power tools I was thinking more along the lines of inflicting pain, but I suppose that you mean absolutely no power tools under any circumstances. What about a Sybian?

Naw, those things are way too impersonal. Most of the stuff I would buy is on liberator.com. The furniture is amazing.

[Incognito]

I took a quick peek. It seems interesting, I'll have to bookmark that site. So I'm guessing your prefer the real thing over all else?



Ha, it looks like I'm getting off topic. I think that either the OP should set her up for 69, i.e. having her straddle his face facing his cock so that she will see it while she's being pleasured -or- ask her about 69 outright.

[sparkle_jello]

I took a quick peek. It seems interesting, I'll have to bookmark that site. So I'm guessing your prefer the real thing over all else?



Ha, it looks like I'm getting off topic. I think that either the OP should set her up for 69, i.e. having her straddle his face facing his cock so that she will see it while she's being pleasured -or- ask her about 69 outright.

Real... everything else just isn't as good. Like generic root beer.

[girl68]

I totally disagree. Why does every sexual act have to be about love? Sometimes it's just raw, in the moment, passion, that should have anything to do with love and everything to do with screwing the shit out of something.

For me the reason is simple: penis in mouth is super duper personal for moi, I will not and cannot just get down and raw and screw (suck) the shit out of something. If you personally disagree, good on ya. But I only open my mouth for those well the 2 guys I've really loved the others weren't so foruntate.