Originally Posted by
vashti
It is true that it is his secret to tell, but I have to tell you that I would be beyond furious if one of my kids knew something of this magnitude and didn't tell me. Also, it's not fair that he burdened you (alone) with this knowledge. If he didn't want your family to know, he shouldn't have told you.
Well he has told my husband too, which is great for having someone to vent to.
I agree though. I know mum is going to be ropeable when she does find out. I am torn on that point though. He told me because out of everyone in the family I am the one he is closest to, he tells me everything. He has also told me in no uncertain terms how angry and disappointed he would be if I blab.
So if I tell or don't, I end up with someone angry at me.
'People are never perfect but love can be. People waste time looking for the perfect lover rather than creating the perfect love' - Princess Leigh-Cheri from Still Life With Woodpecker.