How do guys flirt?

[whaywardj]

Hehe. Ah. The thrill of a fresh romance. How charming. Obviously, there's chemistry. Explore it.

[misombra]

you change in many, many ways as you get older. you're a perfectly normal person and your nervousness is normal. just breath and relax. treat her like you would any other friend. don't worry so much about the what will come of it, just enjoy being in the moment.

[buzz bee]

haha misombra did you just post that in the wrong thread?

[misombra]

uh, i don't know. maybe lol.

[buzz bee]

hehe if so its still great advice, ill just replace the 'her' with 'him' and then its relevant

[misombra]

lol...okay good! lol

[whaywardj]

Actualy, Buzz, it was boilerplate. So many of the same questions get asked that you cut-and-paste replies. Misombra just didn't want to hurt your feelings by telling you.

Ah, hell. I may as well tell you. "Misombra" is one of my other screen names.

Actually, there's only four people on this board.

[buzz bee]

rrrrriiiiiggghhhttt.. geeze guys... do you always make people feel insecure and stupid?

[whaywardj]

Just kidding, Buzz. But it is a pretty direct bunch here. But back to your question: If you're BOTH having involuntary reactions around each other, obviously, something's in the air. If it were me, I'd make my move and know rather than not and never know. And, yes, we all change our style of flirting as we get older. At a point, words become a distraction and romantic behavior becomes overkill. Mere looks speak volumes and gestures shout.

[buzz bee]

ok ok... and yes i understand that looks speak volumes very poetic

k.. well think ill just swallow my pride and give him a call - see if he wants to do something this weekend

[buzz bee]

well called him this arvo at about 3.30 and still havent received a response its now 7... left a msg telling him to call me when he gets a second.... hmmm busy? or has he had enough of my antics and decided im not worth the trouble and work

[boobaa]

That thread makes me unhappy.

Don't ask.

[mini696]

...great minds think alike...

and fools seldom differ.

[whaywardj]

You've made your overture. Now, let it go fly on it's own wings while you go on about your other business.

Do nothing further.

[misombra]

Actualy, Buzz, it was boilerplate. So many of the same questions get asked that you cut-and-paste replies. Misombra just didn't want to hurt your feelings by telling you.

Ah, hell. I may as well tell you. "Misombra" is one of my other screen names.

Actually, there's only four people on this board.

that must be why you know me so well hayward.