The reason why I ask these questions is that such self loathing is caused by some kind of tragic event, trauma, or abuse.
The reason why I ask these questions is that such self loathing is caused by some kind of tragic event, trauma, or abuse.
12th grade at 15? wow she's a few years ahead of herself.
well something in her personal life happened, like a death in the family or her parents are separating, etc. It must be something huge for her not to even trust you enough to tell you, she might be feeling guilty about something, she got involved in something she shouldn't have, maybe she wrote something down in a diary that has upset her parents, who knows. You could try to get in touch with a friend of her's or someone that is close to her to find out if she is in any trouble. It's quite possible she was sexually assaulted by someone she knows. Personally I would be concerned about her behavior.
Last edited by smackie9; 02-07-12 at 06:19 AM.
wow really? Could it be possible that someone you know told her a bull s hit lie about you? Or was there a post on your FB or a text message on yer phone from a girl that she could have misinterpreted? Saw that you had porn on your web history? I'm just throwing ideas out there, the possibilities are endless for sure. Those are the most popular ones that we see on the forum.
Hey Gato, I know how your feeling to a degree, firstly you need to stop thinking about suicide, I've been there, its not nice & you really regret ever thinking like that.
Its already been said but smackle9, it could possibly be a personal issue, if you really like her don't give up, I know its hard but show her you care & she can trust you (try not to seem obsessed etc). Just keep at it, if it doesn't work out its her loss, your young, you have your whole life ahead of you, there's plenty of fish in the sea, as the saying goes.
Oh one more thing...did anyone have access to your phone, like a mischievous sibling and could have sent her a nasty text message. That's another one that has come up on the boards.
No, I don't anyone said stuff about me to her, she never cares about people that gossip. Facebook, she hates it. Text, well, she doesn't really text either. But who knows, it could've been something, it could've been someone.
Heh, I'm not going to give up. If it doesn't work, her big loss. Thanks.
My phone. Pfft. It's mostly off, and the texting doesn't work for a reason. My sister, she doesn't even how to use a phone (younger than me). I always keep my phone in my pocket. xD
hey just checkin all bases here.....
Well maybe her parents told her times up on you being her BF. My parents did that when I was 15.
That would really suck
Well I hope you can find some answers soon. best of luck.