Moving forward & forgetting the past - need some tips

[Boisdevie]

I have said I need her support and basically need her to blow smoke up my arse and make me feel special to her and loved by her, and she has just said I need to grow some balls.

So you told her what you needed and she effectively told you to f.u.c.k. off. Why are you even trying to make this work with such a bitch? Don't you think you deserve better than to be treated like a piece of shit?

[zaccarus]

I am coming round to this way of thinking so thank you for the post. I have given her an ultimatum for want of a better word so it's up to her whether she wants to move it forward and if she doesn't then so be it.