All depends on the context of the situation. If she feels she has to hide it from her BF then yes, it's cheating b/c she is lying.
Last edited by Maple1714; 17-10-13 at 07:08 AM.
Not cheating but very inappropriate.
I donīt think that is cheating.
I mean, fantasy is part of our intimacy, isn`t it.
To cheat is to have sex or kissing or touching and that`s it.
At least that`s what I think.
It's one thing to fantasize, watch/read porn and so on. But what she is about to do is actually interacting with another real person, sending him pictures of herself in her underwear. This is a step too far, it's emotional cheating because it's a bond with another person.
Ya so if the love of your life was doing this sort of thing with another girl...how would your heart be feeling about it?
Sending picture of yourself in your underwear is crossing a very fundamental relationship boundary. It's disrespectful to her partner and to the relationship in general if she's doing things like this with you. She should ask her boyfriend if she can do this and if he's okay with it then thats their business. If she won't ask if he thinks doing things like that is alright with him, then she knows it's cheating so no need to ask us.
If you're so concerned about it then tell her you're going to ask her boyfriend if he is cool with it and if she won't let you, then tell her to keep her pics to herself then.
The willingness to accept responsibility for ones own life is the source from which self-respect springs. ~Joan Didion
It's wrong but it's hard to say if it's cheating or not... I personally think it's cheating but a lot of people let a lot of stuff slide.